Challenging Teen Kids Push Your Buttons

I love being an LOA parent and coach, but my kids still do push my buttons from time to time…or daily.

I keep changing my perspective so that I see myself as an evolving being, so that no one is really right or wrong.  I want my kids to know the power they hold for themselves, so how can I best show them their power?  It’s certainly NOT in taking their power, freedom, favorite things away.  A very misaligned parent takes away from a child to show their power OVER the child.  An aligned parent stays in touch with Source and easily speaks with clarity and grace to her children without expectation that they must obey, for every being is free to decide his/her fate.

And them comes TEENS.  I now have a 13 year old daughter, who is brilliant, funny, and amazing in too many ways to tell you about.  I am glad I can see all the good in her, so when rough moments come, it’s easy to remember.  When a teen pushes your buttons, you need to have your own foundation, and that is within you…All is well, life is easy, every day in every way, I am getting better and better. (And it’s all true!)

You have your own strong foundation, your kids don’t push your buttons!  Get it?

So, here is a video, that gets better as it goes along as well.  The clarity and strength is exactly what I needed to hear about those moments when I’m thinking upstream thoughts, so I can turn them into downstream thoughts about self and having a good relationship with my teen.

Much love, and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA coach

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Bashar Excitement Passion Career Work

I am really getting to know Bashar, channeled by Darryl Anka, and his message, so I’m sharing a little bit.

I have heard Abraham-Hicks explain this concept also, but this really hit home, that I should just keep on the trail of what is exciting.  I had a coaching session with Jeannette Maw from The Good Vibe Blog a while back, and she also told me to make a list of the things I typically do or think I have to do, and rate each thing on a scale of 1-10…then don’t do anything that is less than an 8!  The meaningless fillers will just fall away, it’s really true.

And then, if there are things you have to do, Jeannette said, to find value in them and stay positive while doing them. That’s it!

So, as I pave my new, fun road to my Highest Self, of course, I wanted to share how I am doing it.  The way this video describes the path of excitement about work, is to just find excitement in every area of life, and follow that excitement from thing to thing…and at last it will also show up in the area of “work”.  If we make joy and excitement and passion part of our daily lives, they will be present in all we do, and we will attract the work that has those qualities because we will BE those qualities already.  Make sense?

I’ll close with an Abe quote, “I am happy on my way to my perfect relationships.”  For me this is relationship with self, with Source, with others, with Nature, with Money, with Happiness, with Work, etc…Much love and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA Coach

Bashar

I have been playing with Bashar and his message for quite some time, and it’s finally sinking in.  At first, I thought Bashar, or Darryl Anka who is channeling this entity, sounded CRAZY.  It is almost like he is yelling at us to “get it”.  He’s got these fitful stops and starts when speaking that kind of turned me off years ago.  A few friends have mentioned that he’s well worth getting to know though, so……I kept trying.  And the last time I listened, I started to think, “He’s actually funny.”  So, I’ve turned around my feelings so that I can actually get his messages.  I am ready, I guess.

I am finding that so many LOA topics that are presented through Abraham-Hicks are well done, however, everybody hears things differently.  I am finding that Bashar gives me some passion, and therefore, is fueling my interest in practicing the spiritual stuff that matters to me.  Now, he’s become my best friend.  🙂  I am so happy and thankful that there are so many amazing spiritual teachers that are reaching out to us Earthlings so that we can evolve with peace.

I recently heard a video where Bashar keeps saying, “Circumstances don’t matter. My right now matters.”  Or something like that.  It really hit home!  Everyone has “circumstances”, and although they are different for each individual person, we all still have something to overcome.  I take full responsibility for my past and my right now, and I know my future will be awesome because I am growing into Who I Really Am.

So, you can learn more at Bashar.org, and I hope you will also enjoy or grow because of it as well.  Much love and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA Coach.

Judge not by appearances Neale Donald Walsh

I got a lot out of this video and wanted to share it.  It’s about how the universe says only, “Yes,” and that we have to line up with getting rid of all lack and fears and doubts, and that our wishes will be fulfilled.

You will laugh when you see how easy it is, so it’s just something to think about as the weekend approaches.  I know all is well, and that it always will be, and I hope you’ll get so much out of it that you’ll be jumping for joy.

But the end is VERY profound, in that the “judge not by appearances” has so many meanings. See for yourself!

Much love and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA Coach

What do you want to do with your time 28000 Jelly Beans

I saw this cool Jelly Bean video today and thought, I’d really like to share this, because it will make people think!

What are your 10 favorite things to do?  What things do you really love?  I really did teach myself to read music and play really basic guitar–but I DID IT!  And, yes, it brings me great satisfaction that I thought I was a lost cause at playing music when I was younger, and I got over that limiting belief easily as an adult.

What do you want to have time for?  What kind of ease do you want in your life?  Just being outside more, smelling fresh air? I live one mile from the beach here in NJ, and I have the best of everything, the beach is close, trees and forests within a few minutes, cultural centers like NYC, Philly, and Princeton all 1-2 hours away.  What’s your getaway?  What settings bring you the peace you desire?

What about your life’s purpose?  This jelly bean diagram really made me think that I’d better get more focused to achieve certain goals, but also then, I remembered what LOA teaches–to relax, be happy, have fun, and that is really what brings us closer to our dreams.

You can have ALL you want and more, if you are only HOPEFUL that you can and keep your thoughts aligned with getting it (instead of NOT getting it or being miserable).  That’s the magic formula from Abraham-Hicks, “Ask, Believe, and Receive.”

So, enjoy this 28000 Jelly Beans video, and see what it means to you.  Maybe you’ll want to spend more time with the people you care about, do what inspires you, and have more fun, and I really hope you will.  Much love and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA Coach

Best Song from Annie by Sia and Quvenzhane Wallis Opportunity

I watched the 2014 version of the musical Annie, and remembering the soundtrack, I wanted to share the BEST song from it. It’s Sia’s song Opportunity, but sung by Quvenzhane Wallis.  Both of their talents are immeasurable, and the song really uplifts.  Enjoy!

The song begins at about 30 seconds in.  Look how this little girl really did wrap the world around her finger, and how the LOA paired her up with so many opportunities!  I am so happy for her!

Much love from Jen C., the LOA Coach

What Source Thinks and The Path of Least Resistance

I just watched this game-changing video about what Source thinks and the path of least resistance, as told by Abraham-Hicks. I have been thinking that I have eliminated so many limiting beliefs, so I’ve been wondering why certain things haven’t been moving forward with more positive momentum…and I knew deep down that I still have some resistance.  This video cleared it up for me!  Thank you to Dewdrop for always making amazingly beautiful videos!

Source Energy is always loving us, even when we are looking at ourselves or situations with negative energy, AND THEREFORE, we can remind ourselves that the problem is solved, the only thing we need to do is await the good things we want–Happily.  The path of least resistance is important for all of us, and we can just relax and allow it to flow.  Part of managing resistance is just “knowing” that everything is working out, that Source is flowing the creative components we want, and that the world is really supporting us, not working against us or punishing us.

I love how true it is that if we only stopped thinking negative things about ourselves, all the good we want would come to us. And that is my wish for all beings, learn more about LOA programs that are right for you.

Much love and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA Coach

How Do I Know if the LOA is Working

When I’m in synch and aligned with Source, I feel great!  I am clear minded and enjoying my life.  How do I know if the LOA is working?  Well, I can tell if LOA is working by how I feel first, and then I can tell if the manifestations I want are coming by how fast/slow they come.

Yesterday, I was looking for a good book for my nephew, so I went out and I bought one at BN for his birthday.  Later in the day, I saw a couple getting ready for their yard sale and I asked if I could look while I was out for a walk, and viola!  I started looking through the books, finding 6 for my kids, and 10 for me, and a Jack Kerouak book–perfect for my 14 year old nephew! I was milking this idea, how great a find these books were, and the ones for me were self-help books like Conversations with God, by Neale Donald Walsh, and the like.  So, I finished my walk and went back to pick up my box, and the Book Seller commented on how this was his favorite book and how delighted it always made him.

Oh, what a feeling of relief that I found such an interesting book, how I know I am in a good manifesting place overall, because these fun things keep appearing into my life.  Isn’t it nice when something you’ve been wanting shows up, sometimes with not much of a gap in time at all?  Fast manifesting is the result of being in a happy overall state, and having little resistance about a topic.  (Feeling resistance is the opposite, you have negative feelings in general and about a particular topic, you can learn to practice appreciation and lessen your fears.

Has that ever happened to you?  You really were open to receiving something (no stress situation) and it just came so easily into your experience?  Easy manifesting?  Share your story if you have had this experience.

Much love and many blessings from Jen C., the fun homeschooling mama and LOA Coach.

What Tears of Joy mean

So many times in my life I was thrilled to experience the “tears of joy” that we all get. Something joyful happens and we tear up…but why do we do that?

What tears of joy really mean (usually, and I say this from my life experience) is that we are having a wonderful moment of joy, but we know it’s bittersweet, fleeting, and temporary (like for a child’s graduation and lots of things with children)…and we wish to experience it longer, and therefore, we experience a mixed emotion of what is really joy AND anguish about the timing.  I find that this happens to me a LOT!  I feel sincerely moved by the every day living of being a mother and watching my children grow up, watching relationships change over “time”, and the uniqueness of each person I am honored to behold.

I thought this was just my humble opinion, but then I actually found an Abraham-Hicks video about tears of joy…and although she doesn’t say exactly what I just did, she clarifies some cool stuff.

She says that if we are crying for any reason, we are not in the vortex, and the reason we cry when something feels really good is because we aren’t used to feeling good for an extended period of time.  With practicing gradually changing our vibrations, we can change to experience and notice more good in our every day lives, and the moments that would give us tears will give us more pure joy instead, and we’ll get used to living from that purer state.  I suppose I should be asking to manifest overflowing good feelings, so that I can share them with others, rather than observe life.

I like how she talks about relief and clarity!

Much love from Jen C.

My LOA Article was Published on TheMasterShift

Hi, everybody.  Every day is different and usually very fun here at the Jersey Shore while I am enjoying life and manifesting the stuff I want, but recently, my LOA article was published on TheMasterShift.com, a site that I love!  I am so happy and thankful for moments like this that let me know that I am on the right path in my life.

Kudos for me, and kudos for you if you read it and get something out of it. 🙂  Be sure to come back here and leave a comment when you do.

Much love, Jen C.

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