Finding Bliss during stressful times

Welcome to LOA and More! Today I am interested in expressing how well the LOA works and how to use it effectively even when you feel like you’ve been given a bowl of lemons.

Everyone feels helpless at times, like the control we have is slipping away. Like we are trying so hard and what we want is leaving, and there is a void. Or an angry person is telling you where to go and you not only don’t deserve it, but you didn’t see it coming!

If we are practicing LOA then we also know that we create our own reality…So what we expect, desire, and believe will happen is what will manifest.

And this is why it’s not necessary to be perfect, but it is necessary to make gradual changes in how you respond to each situation that arises. It’s not complicated, especially if you just try to maintain a good mood most of the time.

See if the next few examples make sense for you and if you’d like to challenge yourself to try it as well.

1.  You’re speaking with your spouse and then he/she finds fault with you. Typically, you would stuff that feeling down or get upset and blow up.

LOA teaches awareness, so you can stop or slow down the flow of energy toward helplessness, anger, fear, shame, doubts.  Even while your partner is unhappy, you don’t have to be!

You can remember to breathe and relax in the knowing that this accusation is not about you, but about him/her.

You might be considerate and acknowledge that your partner may have had a bad day, or maybe received some bad news.  Becoming aware of yourself during these situations is a great step toward having a new and desired outcome.  What would you like yours to be?

2.  You thought you were getting ahead then you get yet “another” setback.  You feel burdened with all you have on your shoulders, and you barely have any room to move.

LOA teaches you to find ease, so that when you aren’t in a sticky situation, you would be practicing ease.  If you were doing that often, you will see the results!  So, what can you do now to bring some ease into your life?  Something small, like breathing deeply while you are waiting in line, or while you are driving?

You can’t get ahead until you decide you have an easy life right now!

Hope you can feel the love, and that you’ll create your own today.  Jen C, the Law of Attraction Life Coach

 

 

Bashar

I have been playing with Bashar and his message for quite some time, and it’s finally sinking in.  At first, I thought Bashar, or Darryl Anka who is channeling this entity, sounded CRAZY.  It is almost like he is yelling at us to “get it”.  He’s got these fitful stops and starts when speaking that kind of turned me off years ago.  A few friends have mentioned that he’s well worth getting to know though, so……I kept trying.  And the last time I listened, I started to think, “He’s actually funny.”  So, I’ve turned around my feelings so that I can actually get his messages.  I am ready, I guess.

I am finding that so many LOA topics that are presented through Abraham-Hicks are well done, however, everybody hears things differently.  I am finding that Bashar gives me some passion, and therefore, is fueling my interest in practicing the spiritual stuff that matters to me.  Now, he’s become my best friend.  🙂  I am so happy and thankful that there are so many amazing spiritual teachers that are reaching out to us Earthlings so that we can evolve with peace.

I recently heard a video where Bashar keeps saying, “Circumstances don’t matter. My right now matters.”  Or something like that.  It really hit home!  Everyone has “circumstances”, and although they are different for each individual person, we all still have something to overcome.  I take full responsibility for my past and my right now, and I know my future will be awesome because I am growing into Who I Really Am.

So, you can learn more at Bashar.org, and I hope you will also enjoy or grow because of it as well.  Much love and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA Coach.