Telling the Universe exactly what you want, in a clear and concise way, is such an important step in manifesting your desires using LOA, or the law of attraction. If you had every single thing you wanted, and also knew without question, that you could easily manifest any future things you wanted, you wouldn’t want anyone else’s help or opinions about life, but I would suppose that there are a few areas of your life that you do want improvement in?
So, let me start by saying that only your own opinion does matter, and that you should only look within yourself for the answers you are seeking. And, that focusing on the areas of your life that you want to see a change can be good, IF you can focus your thoughts into feeling like the results you actually want…for example, if you want to have more money flowing, you would picture yourself with more money and create an image of you actually having it. Each time you envision this, you are allowing the money to flow more easily as long as you are also not creating resistance to money. Over time, you practice this higher vibration, and develop ways to be ever more free about money, realizing that life was meant to be easy and fun (not a struggle at all, so if you feel that money IS a struggle, it won’t come easily to you). My favorite money games are the Abraham-Hicks processes in Ask and It is Given. The first game is spending $100 over and over all day until you’ve spend it many times, in essence, spending many hundreds of dollars or thousands of dollars. You realize that “I could buy that if I wanted to” over and over again. Creates a major consciousness shift.
Louise Hay writes in her book, You Can Heal Your Life, that when bills come, welcome them. Send love to your mailbox and affirm that your mailbox only brings you love notes and wealth. When the bill comes, if you are thankful that you have the ability to pay, because someone has trusted you to do so, you will be able to pay it. So, do it with love and appreciation for the money you DO have.
If you want more love in your life, start with yourself…are you loving yourself? When you say, “I want a great relationship,” it won’t come if you don’t feel great about yourself. You get what you ARE right back. The person you are attracted to is going to be an exact match to your point of attraction. If you are in a relationship or married, think about where you were at when you attracted this person into your life. I wonder if you can think back to the things that were so amazing and good about your partner, and focus on those things, in order to bring your relationship to a better status. What you praise increases, and this law is called the Law of Increase. Whatever you are focused on–good or bad–is what you will get more of. Just look at some real life examples and you’ll understand if this is true!
The main idea though, is to find that really happy and joyous place and exist there all the time. Before you make major decisions, before you get in an argument, before you choose a new job or a new home, or a new car, get in the vortex and be happy. When you are happy on purpose, you will be inspired to action; this action is the action that will bring you lasting good. Before you eat or drink, get in the vortex, and you will be guided towards what is right for you for your best health. Get happy and follow your bliss in every topic you care about.
Over time, if you choose to get into the vortex, you will certainly feel better about every topic. The more you relax, allow your goodness to flow, and choose your focus on anything you want (by praising it), you are inviting every good thing you want. You don’t need to be super specific, either. Be general on any topic that has some resistance within it. Don’t activate the resistance, instead, just leave that topic out of the picture, and focus on the big picture, which is usually very good.
What is in your heart? What inspires you most? What do you really feel the need to do in this lifetime that you just can’t give up on? What kinds of people DO you really want to be surrounded by?
Don’t worry about HOW! Leave HOW completely out of it! Just feel good (think about nature, think about good friends and family, think about wonderful moments you’ve had, think about fun you’ve had, think about things you want to do, as long as it doesn’t bring up a feeling of lacking it now).
- “Get into the vortex, and then” is what Esther Hicks always says…
- See what you are inspired to.
- Act only on those good feeling things.
- Give yourself 30 days to feel good about yourself using “I AM” statements.
- Stop complaining about everything in your life.
- Stop managing anyone else’s life, but do guide your own thoughts into good statements in some way.
- Study your results at the beginning of each month, and adjust to get happier.
You WILL get the hang of this, and I believe in you!