Feel Good Now using LOA

Feel Good Now using LOA! LOA is a constant reminder that you are the magnet, the channel, the receptor.

How you feel is what you are attracting. Let’s make today a day full of curiosity, of wonder, of magnetizing the answers we need.

A nice, soft tone to speak to the Universe, to self, to others. Universe likes soft. And you don’t need to yell or repeat yourself.

The best you can do is surrender and Know that Source is taking care of everything (using LOA to connect each piece to you).

And your only job is to relax, think about your preferences in a neutral or happy way, appreciate all that is coming to you without cursing what you now view as negative. The neutral place helps so much. For stability, for security.

If you want to manifest anything, like better relationships, more money, certain stuff, then feeling good is how you get there.

Feeling good is the reason, not what you get at the end! It’s the whole process and journey that makes life fun, not just the view from the summit.

Abraham always says that Life is supposed to be fun. If you aren’t getting what you really want yet, I’m here for free consults​.

In just these few minutes, I can read your energy, and give you some LOA info to help. Working together through phone coaching is easy and convenient.

Call or text me at 848-232-8392 to set up a time to discuss your energy, EST.

There is almost always a mixture of emotions that you go to, some help and others don’t. I can help with being clear about increasing the better emotions, and decreasing the negativity.

I’m a big advocate for learning the process then just checking in with me occasionally. Coaching is simple help from a trusted observer…one with great Intuition!

So let’s get you feeling new emotions and loving your life so your life can be fun again!

Love, Jen C., The LOA Life Coach

Shadow Work or LOA

Did you ever wonder how effective Shadow Work by Carl Jung is?  When I was in college, I learned about Carl Jung and felt a strange belief, an alignment with him and what he delved into.

However, I always had issues with psychology in general because it was fixated on finding something wrong with people!  So, I found issues with all of psychology, and thought there was more to it, that people were far more than one little part of their lives, or any observable behavior.

Shadow work involves looking at fears, the parts of you that you didn’t or weren’t able to observe, to shed light on them and to actually gain strength and understanding.

Yet, my experience was the opposite!  Every time I looked hard at what I feared, I created more of that!  So the Law of Attraction is always at work…

The Law of Attraction says that whatever you focus on you create, and it’s true no matter how good the intention is.  If the focus is fear, weakness, and problems, guess what I was creating more of?

(See the rest of this blog and my newer one at www.sourcehearsyes.com for more info on using your own intuition about what to do.)

I’ve met a lot of people through my work as a teacher, guidance counselor, and LOA Life Coach that really think they have to “work through” and struggle with their past in order to figure it out.  Nothing could be further from the truth.

Sometimes we just can’t see or believe for a while, even if someone is pointing it out.  We like to stay and complain for a while, often for decades about the same problem, rather than truly shining the light on it or ourselves.  Shining the light feels like forgiveness and freedom, it feels like choice, it feels like movement into something new.  That is why I love Abraham, to always guide me towards what is good for me.

BUT I can only reach so far with LOA, so the changes need to be gradual.

I finally heard an Abraham-Hicks video on this exact topic, but have known that we can’t feel good looking at our problems!  I’ve always felt more comfortable looking at what is right, at our strengths, at our gifts.  I hope you enjoy this LOA gem, and remember to keep moving forward in positive momentum toward your joys.  Stay in the light, don’t keep looking at the dark!

I became a life coach because I believe in the goodness of people, that they deserve to feel great.  If you are ready to focus yourself into your greatness, text or call me for a free 15 minute consult at 848-232-8392.

Donations or Hosting an Event for Land for the Homeless?

We all to give to charity, at least from time to time.  Us here in the “energy world” of light workers and healers seem to generously give to many and as frequently as we can.

What I’d like to request after time and consideration is that anyone who is interested in helping LandfortheHomeless.org, which is a non-profit 503C in NJ working with the unsheltered homeless…

  • We’ve done drives with some success,
  • We’ve done tabling (Like at Barnes & Noble in Brick around the holidays, and Michelle Leonard with SoulSational in the summer) with some success,
  • We’ve done food and supply drop offs,
  • We’ve done a spaghetti dinner and an auction.

All these things are AWESOME, but we would love to have “regular” monthly contributions from our many supporters.

Would you be on board with signing up for a recurring monthly payment of as little as $1 through PayPal?  Maybe $5 or $10? 

Or, would you like to host a monthly event (for even one hour) and donate a portion to help L4H?

I am holding monthly women’s circles, usually on the third Saturday of the month, and I’m donating the whole thing, but splitting it with a friend who is donating to Yoga Life Society.  Please like me on Facebook to get info on this wonderfully fulfilling women’s event and more classes coming soon.

Also, if anyone who wants to contribute to L4H through my coaching, please tell me CODE: L4H2017 so that I can give you a discount AND donate more to them.  Still tax deductible for YOU because I love you.

(See this is how I keep this organization in my life, my energy, and my prayers…by sending them some monthly love!!)

We would love any and all possibilities to be met as we move towards a real camp that is well functioning and self sustaining.  We also welcome your input and expertise if you’d like to offer that in any mental health, legal, accounting capacity.

If you can, please do.  LMK if you would like to host a drive for food, supplies of camping gear, or taking donations.  You can offer to put a jar out for donations at local businesses, so many of them will say YES.  Or, you can offer to donate a small or recurring amount, whatever you choose, it is right!

Thanks so much for always listening and following your heart.

Much love and many blessings, from Jen C., the Law of Attraction Life Coach

Stop Jumping Around with Law of Attraction Energy Practices

You know those people.

They complain that nothing is working.  They’ve tried “everything”.  Yet, still…no results.  I have news for you.  They aren’t really practicing then.

You see, nobody needs a toolbox with thousands of tools, or needs to read every book by every expert.  Yet, so many jump from person to person’s wealth of “knowledge” just to see what they know.  But then–they don’t dedicate much time to an actual PRACTICE, so they still don’t get very far with any one thing.

Nothing improves for this person, their life sucks, they say, or that they have major problems in every area, career, family, money, and health.

You find yourself giving them your words of wisdom about being positive, but you really know that IF they were practicing any one energy practice, they would see gradual results.  But you are a good friend so maybe you won’t say a thing (because you’ll just LOA ignore them)…

IF you happen to be the jumper, that’s ok…take a deep breath and just release that need to learn more and practice later.  Just get comfortable practicing now.  Whatever you want, practice now.

If you are feeling lonely and isolated, go out and practice being with others.  Give someone the gift of YOU, and others will see you and welcome you. (Go into it with frustration and anger and others will not want you there).

If you are unhappy with yourself in some way, release the need to be perfect and embrace that you are in exactly the right spot that is needed for the changes you want.  And now the changes can come.  There is something to be happy about right now, that the sun was there to light our planet (even if you didn’t find anything personal…look around at the systems put in place that our human laws can’t explain).

If you are disappointed you haven’t reached your goal yet, meditate and get quiet.  Feel that you are moving in the right direction now.  Source always has a way to bring your favorite people, things, and fun to you, but only if you get into receiving mode.  Yes, it can happen, and yes, it can be easy.  Even your whole life can be easy.  If you can practice ease now.

Stop jumping from program to program and stick with things that work, such as:

  1. Meditation
  2. Journaling
  3. Being Present

There are lots of law of attraction books and teachers and systems and you may have tried a few or many.  Think about what works, and it’s usually something simple and easy.  So that is what I like to promote, that you have this innate ability to get back to that simple and easy approach and make it yours.  You are completely intuitive and meant to use it!!

You are a goldmine of good qualities, and these qualities can come out when you are free from interference of the mind.  These three items, meditation, journaling, and being present all have the idea of being present and being comfortable with yourself.

I’m sure I’ll post later about how to be more comfortable with yourself, but if you have a suggestion for a specific post, please leave me a comment about what you’d like me to write about, and I’ll be happy to oblige!

For now, please get in touch for your free LOA Consult, just call or text me at 848-232-8392 so we can set up a time, and I can help you set up a specific plan that is just as simple and easy.  And phone consults make your life so much easier.

Lotsa love from Jen C. the LOA Life Coach

 

 

 

 

 

 

Free Law of Attraction Phone Consults

If you have been wanting a Law of Attraction session, you are welcome to call me to set up a free one time phone consultation for 15 minutes.  Great way to find out if LOA coaching is right for you, and we can also discuss what options are open to you after that.

You have no ideas, great ideas, life is a mess, or just need some clarity.  It doesn’t matter.  The law of attraction is for everyone, and it’s working whether we like it or know it’s there.  The LOA is the powerful manager of the universe that is always bringing our thoughts to us.  We can only think within a window of what we’ve been doing, so with a small amount of feeling better, we can be open to new and better thoughts.

What coaching does is get you clear.  You can get relief from a bad situation, or move forward happily in one life area.  Plus, once you speak with me, and we’re in flow on your important questions, I have lots of plans for even tight budgets.

I’m available for weekdays, nights, and weekends, so just call or text me to find out how to move some energy in your favor. 848-232-8392 in NJ.

Feel Like Your Life is a Masterpiece

No matter where you are in your life, you have to feel like you yourself are an accomplishment.  Like you are the value and purpose of your own life.

Wait…you don’t always feel like that?  I know.  We’ve all been told we’re not enough.  We’ve all suffered and told ourselves that we weren’t strong, that we’re messed up.

But what if all of that was wrong…because we focused on what was wrong with us (or what we were lacking), and that we weren’t looking at what was right with us?

As Dr. Wayne Dyer said, “When you change the things you look at, the things you look at change.”  Doesn’t that stop and give you pause?

Spending time dissecting all the things I did wrong was a pasttime of mine, and I know I’m pretty normal, so I am guessing most people–especially women–do this.  But we don’t have to.

And I won’t any longer.  Feeling strong in what is good about me is now my pasttime.  I feel great knowing that I’m special and loved, I’m adored because Source loves me.  And I am comforted that Source loves every single one of us.  Equally.

And that because we’re eternal, there is no end to the creating.  If I don’t ever figure out how to relax in this lifetime, it’s ok.  I have many lifetimes.

What is going right with me?  A heck of a lot!  Most of me is pleasing to me, and I take pleasure in finding what is good in myself.  And because I took the time to learn this for myself, I can actually see more of the good in others as well.

IF you have trouble finding what is going right with yourself, consider coming to a Women’s Sacred Circle and get in touch with our community of Beautiful Goddesses that would completely adore you and remind you that you are amazing.  There is no need to wait.  You deserve all good right now.  With nothing to prove, join ours or any other women’s circle for some awesome vibes.

We meet a few times a month for these Women’s Circles in Belmar and Brick, NJ.

The remembering is what is important.  Because we all would remember if we could release the toxic ideas we started believing about ourselves.  We each have the power to turn all that upside down!  to get our personal power back!  It’s easier and more fun than you think, just gradually building new ideas about self, so that you can allow yourself to become this Masterpiece.

Lotsa love from Jen C., The LOA Life Coach

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Keeping the Mind Busy

You know what is a gigantic helper for the mood?

Just doing something and completely immersing yourself. By paying attention to something other than yourself and your feelings, you can guide your vibe into a helpful place.

So if you are in a bad mood, and you need a lift, have you ever just shifted focus by going to work and being in the moment there, and then felt better?  Or gone home from work and enjoyed your family and forgotten about work?

It’s totally OK to trick your mind!  In fact, it’s preferred to trying so hard to get out of a bad mood or “make something happen”.  Just doing one thing well and staying put in that moment creates an enjoyable experience.  Not worrying about the past or future.  Just staying put in a happy state.

Or, after a long week, maybe you take time to enjoy something like a girl’s night out, or donate your time to help someone else.

When you take your mind off of YOU, you actually feel better.

You don’t have to constantly be in a positive affirmation!  You just need to relax and find enough relief TO enjoy the present.  And you are getting better at this all the time. You got this!  Progress, not perfection, right?

It’s useful to have a mixture of tools, so this is one of the many LOA techniques that bring you back into alignment.  And alignment is everything.

We’re always looking at our conscious creating, and trying to work together to get better at it, and support each other.  We love, we care, we network, we support.  Women’s Sacred Circles and taking time out to really see each other, appreciate each other is what makes this movement special.

See my Facebook page for LOA Events such as Women’s Circles and Money Vibe Groups coming up in the Central NJ area.

Be sure to comment about what your favorite way to keep your mind busy so that you can pass on the love to others, and learn something new to keep your alignment!

Lotsa love from Jen C. the LOA Life Coach 848-232-8392 for a free 10 minute consult.

Having Great Flow

Right now, I’m talking about momentum of good stuff happening.  Flow.  Movement.  Coming from a place of Alignment.  Feeling even a little bit of joy (it doesn’t have to be a lot), knowing that you are creating it as you go.  Nothing happens overnight, it’s far more gradual than that.  A good mood just building over time into something way more than just a good mood…

Waking up happy is nice.  If you haven’t felt like you can be like that, you are missing out!  Life wasn’t meant to be a struggle, so if you want to improve your life, what is it you are looking at ABOUT your life?  Is it some area you want to be different?  Are you upset or sad that you haven’t achieved something important to you yet?

Distinguished Conscious Creators know how to keep a balance between reality–what is–and what they would like to be in the near future.

Default Creators just keep looking at what is…and it stays the same.

The difference is that the Conscious Creators don’t get stuck in reality, they don’t accept it fully because they know it’s always shifting.  And they shift with reality.

When default creators see boring, conscious creators see new fun coming and let’s play with this and see what happens.

When default creators see not enough money, conscious creators feel money coming from being in a good mood.

When default creators curse disease, conscious creators say, “thank you for my healing.”

The Conscious Creators know how to keep their mood stable, no matter what comes their way, and that is the difference we all long for.  Having a stable mood is the key to happiness.  I’m not saying that we all don’t experience most emotions, it’s just that good flow happens from cultivating the source of happiness from within (not from others), so every little thing doesn’t throw them off.

Conscious Creators guide their own mood,  and when something does come up, they regain their control faster than most people would. Makes sense, right?

Good flow is natural, yet many long for this state of being in the zone.  Life is full of abundance, synchronicities, and fun.  It’s a normal and natural state.  If you would love to experience more of that, contact me for info about how to use your own Intuition to get you where you want to go.

Lotsa Love from Jen C. the LOA Life Coach

 

 

Morning Appreciation Manifesting Routine Abraham Hicks

Some people wake up super happy, so I am sharing my morning appreciation routine, some of it is Abraham-Hicks type stuff but all of it is energy work, clearing energy blocks, and being my Highest Self.

I wanted to share some of what I’m doing–because feeling good is what I want and I know this is helping me to focus my mind in the right way to consistently have good feelings.

If I just looked at my reality, I might not be able to find happiness.  I had to not judge appearances, and realize my God Self, and really go beyond my limits.  As a mom in my early forties, I am realizing that the only thing that matters is love, and I want my new image of myself to reflect my new beliefs, which include love, appreciation, joy, happiness, peace, and especially freedom.

So, this is what I’m doing to create the good feelings (kind of like I’m invincible, and I know I am because I am eternal anyway):

1.  Wake up and appreciate what I’m experiencing right then.  Things like my bed, knowing my children are safe, that we have so many freedoms and abundance of all kinds.

2.  I write one or more paragraphs in my journal about a specific good feeling (fun, playfulness, thoughtful, caring, generous, unconditional love, clarity) and spend about 2-5 minutes writing, because as I write I am building in positive momentum, as long as I keep my words general.  For instance, “All is well, everything is always working out for me, and I am realizing my Highest Self” feels way better than, “I barely paid my bills.”  Of course, there are differences between these two statements, and reasons for choosing each.  The first speaks of unconditional faith and a knowing that all really is well because I can’t make a mistake, and all life is really perfect as is.  The second speaks of lack, which is something we all want to stay away from.  There is a story we all tell ourselves after we experience something–if you tell yourself a story of lack then you are blind to the Universal Laws that are working without permission from you.

3.  I visualize my Energy Ball, (rub your hands together and feel the energy between them) like Christie Marie Sheldon, and I put all the good feelings I want in it for myself and others. So, I just feel me planting the love, the peace, the fun, the freedom, the clarity, the abundance, the gentleness, the harmony, the cooperation, the forgiveness in the energy between my hands, and I send this energy ball to myself, then all of my family members, then all the beings in the world and universe.

You may think this is no big deal, but I assure you, it is.  To have faith in myself and my creative abilities is what God or Source wants for us.  If you are inclined, try this as well,, and share any other good morning appreciation or manifesting routine or tips you may have.

Much love and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA Coach

PS I am now available by appointment for phone coaching, so if you aren’t in NJ, you can learn LOA with ease. Packages available for any life area, Self, Health, Relationships, Money, Career.

Finding Bliss during stressful times

Welcome to LOA and More! Today I am interested in expressing how well the LOA works and how to use it effectively even when you feel like you’ve been given a bowl of lemons.

Everyone feels helpless at times, like the control we have is slipping away. Like we are trying so hard and what we want is leaving, and there is a void. Or an angry person is telling you where to go and you not only don’t deserve it, but you didn’t see it coming!

If we are practicing LOA then we also know that we create our own reality…So what we expect, desire, and believe will happen is what will manifest.

And this is why it’s not necessary to be perfect, but it is necessary to make gradual changes in how you respond to each situation that arises. It’s not complicated, especially if you just try to maintain a good mood most of the time.

See if the next few examples make sense for you and if you’d like to challenge yourself to try it as well.

1.  You’re speaking with your spouse and then he/she finds fault with you. Typically, you would stuff that feeling down or get upset and blow up.

LOA teaches awareness, so you can stop or slow down the flow of energy toward helplessness, anger, fear, shame, doubts.  Even while your partner is unhappy, you don’t have to be!

You can remember to breathe and relax in the knowing that this accusation is not about you, but about him/her.

You might be considerate and acknowledge that your partner may have had a bad day, or maybe received some bad news.  Becoming aware of yourself during these situations is a great step toward having a new and desired outcome.  What would you like yours to be?

2.  You thought you were getting ahead then you get yet “another” setback.  You feel burdened with all you have on your shoulders, and you barely have any room to move.

LOA teaches you to find ease, so that when you aren’t in a sticky situation, you would be practicing ease.  If you were doing that often, you will see the results!  So, what can you do now to bring some ease into your life?  Something small, like breathing deeply while you are waiting in line, or while you are driving?

You can’t get ahead until you decide you have an easy life right now!

Hope you can feel the love, and that you’ll create your own today.  Jen C, the Law of Attraction Life Coach

 

 

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