Expectation is Everything when you want to Manifest Anything

Why does life feel good?  You expect good things to happen and they do?  My experience has been that expectation is everything when you want to manifest anything!

It doesn’t matter what you want–you must act like it’s happening now, know that it’s coming, feel all the feelings of having it, think about why you want it, and trust that it IS.  When you live like the one thing you want is the only option, the other paths fall away, and the true path opens.

Just like graduating high school or college, getting a job, moving into a relationship…you know that if you follow certain steps you will eventually get there.  Most teens expect to graduate.  What they do from there, may be more ambiguous, but they still are creating their lives.  It’s all their choice really, although us parents entertain the illusion that somehow “we” set our kids up for their successes.

Look at love, or finding love!  If you are really wishy-washy about what you want, your date choices reflect that.  It’s in choosing a path that we find out who we are…Are we discerning?  Are we too picky and therefore judgmental, making others bad because they aren’t just like us?  Are we direct and openly caring?  What qualities do you want in a mate?  I hope you could want some of these attributes, and feel these often in your own life in order to BECOME each quality.  You must BE it to get it.  Goodness, Worthy, Love, Passion, Joyful, Happy, Healthy, Faithful, Loyal, Playful, Free, Romantic, Thoughtful, Caring, Forgiving, Calm, Peaceful, Enthusiastic, Energetic, Eager, Flexible, Rich, Affluent, Abundant, and whatever else you can create.  It’s when we relax that that magic happens.  We have this expectation that our lives will get better and better, so then we just go and create some fun for ourselves, and then, that’s when a potential partner shows up.

So, Abraham-Hicks teaches all this good expectation stuff, but in a general way.  We can want anything at all, and if we feel good, we should expect to get it.  Conversations With God says something similar, in that we should let go of expectation for specific things and enjoy the process, like “the joy is in the journey.”  In the end, everything is perfect and right for us, so we can stop judging everything as good or bad (which would remove thousands of negative thoughts about ourselves daily).  We can be happy on the way to where we are going, because we’ll always be on the way.  We never cease to be, we just change our energies and our bodies and our families through lifetimes of the illusion of being born.

We can just be our authentic, higher self, and live every moment as if we know Who We Are, and make our decisions about what to think, say, and do based on if it fits our image of us as our Higher Selves.  If we had complete faith, we would only expect good things, so don’t get caught up in specifics too much, surrender more, trust more, and you will be golden.

That sounds easy, right?  Much love and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA Coach

Judge not by appearances Neale Donald Walsh

I got a lot out of this video and wanted to share it.  It’s about how the universe says only, “Yes,” and that we have to line up with getting rid of all lack and fears and doubts, and that our wishes will be fulfilled.

You will laugh when you see how easy it is, so it’s just something to think about as the weekend approaches.  I know all is well, and that it always will be, and I hope you’ll get so much out of it that you’ll be jumping for joy.

But the end is VERY profound, in that the “judge not by appearances” has so many meanings. See for yourself!

Much love and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA Coach

Money Consciousness

What is your money truth?  Get your money consciousness up to par! Start telling your money story with better expectations and see where you get!  Whatever you think about, especially with great feeling is what you get in life, so what are you thinking about?

What are your dominant thoughts all day?  Scientists say we think about 60,000 thoughts every day!  If you spent the majority of your time thinking about how you displease others or others displease you, how bad others are, and how you aren’t good enough to achieve your dreams, then you are thinking negative!

If the majority of your thoughts are about good things, expecting good things to happen for yourself and your loved ones, and seeing the good things actually come, then you probably have a good money consciousness as well…money just follows a healthy, good mood!

The Abraham-Hicks In the Vortex CD offers four really good 15-minute meditations on Overall Happiness, Money, Health, and Relationships.  Listening to this CD has given me much relief from all of my monkey mind issues!  One important topic in the CD is that raising your general and overall happiness level, by appreciating all you do have and noticing what IS going right in your life, brings you more happiness and usually, more money as well.

But this video is awesome because it really gives good perspective on how to raise your vibration around money.

Check this out and see if it offers you something wonderful also!  Thank you so much for stopping by.  Much love and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA Coach

Jon of God and Distant Healing JoG Adrienne Grierson

I thought I would send out this wonderful resource for anyone who ails, who believes in God, and who wants to heal.  I found out about Jon of God through Dr. Wayne Dyer.  Dyer publicly told his account with JoG distant healing from leukemia (make sure you see my LOA info on healing leukemia), and appeared on Oprah about it.  Dyer had a distance “surgery” and then had to recover and stay in bed, while the entities worked on his healing.  Here’s the video about it:

Well, the big deal is that you can also do this, for yourself.  You don’t need to have a “surgery”, you can just ask to have the entities get to work on your overall health.  Or, if you’d like to ask the entities to begin healing for a child under 14, it is considered their tithing and is completely free.  Just email them a photo, that simple!

I did pay for the adult passionflower herbs for distant healing, and waited Adrienne Grierson’s reply with the info about who was my Lead Entity, which was John Valdevino.  I felt major shifts in my energy, and was finally able to begin to move into a more unconditional loving place and release old anger and past hurts and forgive myself and others.

I want to encourage anyone who wants to heal any aspect of themselves–whether you want more confidence, more health, more love, more abundance, more and better of anything at all–to place your faith in this resource!  I seriously felt the difference and continue to connect with John Valdevino for helping me, and I know the entities that began helping me are still with me and encouraging and supporting me.

If you want some type of angelic support, I found this easy and fun to do, and I know it’s helping millions of people around the world. If you don’t know about JoG, definitely check them out!  I was led to this LOA resource almost by magic because my “Asking” was so strong at the time, but maybe you will be relaxed and allow more health to come to you.

Much love and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA Coach.

What do you want to do with your time 28000 Jelly Beans

I saw this cool Jelly Bean video today and thought, I’d really like to share this, because it will make people think!

What are your 10 favorite things to do?  What things do you really love?  I really did teach myself to read music and play really basic guitar–but I DID IT!  And, yes, it brings me great satisfaction that I thought I was a lost cause at playing music when I was younger, and I got over that limiting belief easily as an adult.

What do you want to have time for?  What kind of ease do you want in your life?  Just being outside more, smelling fresh air? I live one mile from the beach here in NJ, and I have the best of everything, the beach is close, trees and forests within a few minutes, cultural centers like NYC, Philly, and Princeton all 1-2 hours away.  What’s your getaway?  What settings bring you the peace you desire?

What about your life’s purpose?  This jelly bean diagram really made me think that I’d better get more focused to achieve certain goals, but also then, I remembered what LOA teaches–to relax, be happy, have fun, and that is really what brings us closer to our dreams.

You can have ALL you want and more, if you are only HOPEFUL that you can and keep your thoughts aligned with getting it (instead of NOT getting it or being miserable).  That’s the magic formula from Abraham-Hicks, “Ask, Believe, and Receive.”

So, enjoy this 28000 Jelly Beans video, and see what it means to you.  Maybe you’ll want to spend more time with the people you care about, do what inspires you, and have more fun, and I really hope you will.  Much love and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA Coach

Helping someone for the right reasons or the wrong reasons

Have you ever helped someone and felt great about yourself for it, like because you did it for the right reasons?  I sure have…Like yesterday, my 5 year old found a nickel and a penny and didn’t have a pocket, so she asked me to “hold” it for her and then later on at the grocery store, a man asked me for exactly 6 cents.  I quickly assessed that the six cents were meant for him, but I could easily find a quarter and handed him that instead (not wanting to upset my kids, I made sure I used “my” money).  But I felt great because I knew it was the universe at work, lining up an interesting synchronicity for me.

This could be one of many interactions where people seem to find me for answers, be it money, abundance, spirituality, or some self-learning, that I’ve seen lately.  I’m not sure what label I’ll give it, but it will be a good and empowering one.  I’ll consider it a compliment that people in my world view me as someone abundant enough to gift to others.

And, of course, there are countless other times when I wanted to give or was inspired to give, and that kind of giving feels completely different than the kind of giving when we feel obligated.  No matter what, it’s the label we give to it that matters.

If I view myself as helping someone because they are helpless or not enough, then I whatever I do, I’m not helping them at all.  If I view the other person/animal/situation as being able to help or heal themselves, or I can uplift them or the situation, that’s my only goal.  So, as Esther Hicks says, “I am happy on the way to my perfect relationships.”  Relationship with myself/God, relationships with others, relationship with money, success, time, etc.

Much love and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA Coach