Don’t you just love the feeling of alignment, AKA Getting in the Gap, or just Getting Happy?
Most people don’t need to waste their money with therapy, groups, friends, family and many pointless conversations complaining to anyone who will listen! For most, the answer to prayers truly comes just from focusing on solutions and feeling relief or feeling hopeful about the future.
With focus, feeling alignment becomes easy! Finding something joyful about right now, being it, just because you are or love who you are, because you are enjoying some part of your experience is what life is all about. Right now, I am in alignment because I choose to be; I am a conscious creator or a deliberate creator…and therefore, good things like my kids being nice, lots of fun experiences, and having enough of everything just comes naturally as a result of that alignment.
Getting Happy is really the plan for a good life! What Dr. Wayne Dyer talks about when he was discussing “getting in the gap” was getting from where you are now to where you want to be…part of it is being happy NOW, and not waiting for the happiness to happen when you get there. Esther Hicks, through Abraham, also teaches about how people should get happy now.
BUT HOW? Small steps make a big difference!
How does anyone feel alignment when they are sick or have money problems, or they have a lot of drama?
First, anyone can start doing a Book of Positive Aspects, used in Ask and It is Given by Esther and Jerry Hicks, where you get a notebook, and write only positive things about any topic–because you just want alignment, because it will make you feel good doing this, or because you want to improve your vibe about a topic (you wish to write about an easy topic that seems fun right now).
Second, begin to ignore as much as you can that isn’t pleasing to you. Literally, I mean. Care for yourself in whatever way you need to, but beyond that, ignore anything you don’t like. It will create a peace in your mind, because complaining is a luxury in most instances. We really should be praising far more than complaining anyhow–it feels far better and will actually bring us alignment, whereas complaining creates a downward cycle that keeps us down.
Start to think about what is fun instead! Almost everyone I know says they love nature or like to take a walk, and these things are free. Not everything costs money if money is tight, and there are lots of activities you would do just because you like them (read, watch or go to a great program, painting, coloring, listening to music, being with a pet, yoga, exercise, meditation, sports with friends, starting a group for DIY topics). Use your imagination–that is what it is for. When you put yourself into a positive vibe on purpose, methodically, every day, your life will completely turn around.
So, use the Book of Positive Aspects, ignore problems, praise more, and do fun things!! Try this and see what turns around for you, and be sure to let us know here when you do! Much love and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA Life coach.