Focus Wheel and Focus are Key for Success

I was blown away by this Focus Wheel video from Abraham-Hicks, and focus is truly the key for LOA success.  This process is very effective to move you into better feeling thoughts, and make you feel more certain and sure about where you are going.  (The example here is someone asking about Real Estate success, but really does apply to anyone).

If you would like to see/hear/feel how the Focus Wheel process works, this is the perfect way to find out.  The wheel has a statement that you begin with and then you proceed to add some similar feeling statements, that you keep general enough in the earlier stages, and you get more specific as you gain in positive momentum/clarity/strength/belief.

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Enjoy, and all the best!  Much love and blessings from Jen C., the LOA Life Coach

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Uplifting the Supporters and Advocates and Helping the Homeless in NJ

NJ has over 12,000 homeless people, and about 600 where I live in Ocean County.  This is where the Tent City in Lakewood was destroyed last year, removing over a hundred homeless to other areas, basically hiding in the woods elsewhere.

My belief is that a being can never feel fulfilled if they haven’t given something to another who needs it, or even one who can’t repay it.  If one has something, and can donate a small percentage, like tithing (which is usually spoken of as 10% of a person’s income), it actually feels amazing to give it.  All the religions speak of this, because there is something to it.

For years when my oldest daughter was very young, we would choose a charity a month, and we’d discuss why we liked helping that group and donate a few dollars to them.  It was usually animal rights and human rights groups, or sometimes those about farming and organics.  We always looked forward to that day each month when we’d sit to choose, and were immensely happy to write a check and mail it.  WE, the givers, LOVED it.  We got a lot out of it.

Now, I’m discussing a few things here, but it’s really big news for the giver. You heard me, I’m talking about why it’s important for the GIVER to give.  Giving in general, implies that one has so much, an abundance, or extra–TO give.  So, when a person makes an intention TO give, the universe will automatically line up with ways to expand this person’s income to allow them to have enough for the self, plus enough to give.  The giver feels amazingly great, because of this fact, but also because they sometimes see the changes happening and the positive momentum that comes along with it.  The giver realized that it feels so good, they will continue to do it, and make it “stick”.  And, the giver’s innate ability to draw more abundance to themselves also expands…(unless they are looking at a lack of money).

Doesn’t it feel like a gift you give yourself when you are donating or giving to others?

I love that there are lots of people that do give and gift to others often and continue to do it with the generosity of saints.  I thank God there are some without judgment that enjoy helping no matter what the conditions are.  But I especially wish that the people with the worst of problems in a society, be allowed a chance to be safe and even get to a place where they can bring themselves up, with some help.  How we treat the homeless, the sick, the elderly, and the animals are an indication of where we are “at” in society.  They all need some assistance, and if you are inspired to do some of your own giving, do so here.

Please consider tithing any portion of your own income, (such as a recurring monthly donation) a love offering that will help you as much as the receivers, to this uplifting non-profit, www.landforthehomeless.org, as they are trying to secure a piece of land and the supplies needed for a supportive camp environment so that 120 people can make it through the next winter.  There will also be a Tent Drive/Sleeping Bag Drive coming up in the next few months.

I am offering a host of new classes, from Reiki sessions and Intuitive Healing sessions, LOA basics classes (4 week series), LOA Wealth Coaching, and Expanding Intuition.  And, yes, I still tithe, to L4H and a few others.

Much love and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA Life Coach.  You can see my new class offerings at The Reiki Way Learning Center in Brick, NJ.

Challenging Teen Kids Push Your Buttons

I love being an LOA parent and coach, but my kids still do push my buttons from time to time…or daily.

I keep changing my perspective so that I see myself as an evolving being, so that no one is really right or wrong.  I want my kids to know the power they hold for themselves, so how can I best show them their power?  It’s certainly NOT in taking their power, freedom, favorite things away.  A very misaligned parent takes away from a child to show their power OVER the child.  An aligned parent stays in touch with Source and easily speaks with clarity and grace to her children without expectation that they must obey, for every being is free to decide his/her fate.

And them comes TEENS.  I now have a 13 year old daughter, who is brilliant, funny, and amazing in too many ways to tell you about.  I am glad I can see all the good in her, so when rough moments come, it’s easy to remember.  When a teen pushes your buttons, you need to have your own foundation, and that is within you…All is well, life is easy, every day in every way, I am getting better and better. (And it’s all true!)

You have your own strong foundation, your kids don’t push your buttons!  Get it?

So, here is a video, that gets better as it goes along as well.  The clarity and strength is exactly what I needed to hear about those moments when I’m thinking upstream thoughts, so I can turn them into downstream thoughts about self and having a good relationship with my teen.

Much love, and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA coach

Bashar Excitement Passion Career Work

I am really getting to know Bashar, channeled by Darryl Anka, and his message, so I’m sharing a little bit.

I have heard Abraham-Hicks explain this concept also, but this really hit home, that I should just keep on the trail of what is exciting.  I had a coaching session with Jeannette Maw from The Good Vibe Blog a while back, and she also told me to make a list of the things I typically do or think I have to do, and rate each thing on a scale of 1-10…then don’t do anything that is less than an 8!  The meaningless fillers will just fall away, it’s really true.

And then, if there are things you have to do, Jeannette said, to find value in them and stay positive while doing them. That’s it!

So, as I pave my new, fun road to my Highest Self, of course, I wanted to share how I am doing it.  The way this video describes the path of excitement about work, is to just find excitement in every area of life, and follow that excitement from thing to thing…and at last it will also show up in the area of “work”.  If we make joy and excitement and passion part of our daily lives, they will be present in all we do, and we will attract the work that has those qualities because we will BE those qualities already.  Make sense?

I’ll close with an Abe quote, “I am happy on my way to my perfect relationships.”  For me this is relationship with self, with Source, with others, with Nature, with Money, with Happiness, with Work, etc…Much love and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA Coach

Attracting the Right Perfect Clients

I love helping people find or attract the right perfect clients.  Living where I live, I am a SAHM and homeschooling two of my daughters, I love being able to work part time while combining a few ways to work from home.  So, being able to find great clients is really important for face to face meetings or running a business online.

I got some very awesome minutes of Jeannette Maw’s (at the Good Vibe Blog) time a while back, after she did a course on attracting the best clients, and she said that we have to learn the vibration of clients…Huh?  Clients have a vibration???????

She said if we think about how we are “not attracting clients”, not attracting clients who will pay, not attracting clients that are perfectly suited for us in our practices…then, we just don’t understand the vibration of clients.

So, if you want to attract the right and perfect clients for your business, what does the vibration of having amazing clients feel like?  For starters, it’s easy.  Life is easy, so, work is also easy and fun.  I enjoy going to work, I love knowing that a stream of perfect clients continually and endlessly flow to me, at exactly the right time for me.  I love the excitement of where each day will go, and my expansion as I go with it.  I love going with the flow of life, and I know life keeps bringing me more fun ways to enjoy my work.  My clients love me because I’m a gifted (you fill in the blank…coach, planner, stylist, mechanic) and help people realize their desires.

You line up with the path of attracting the right clients, and you don’t look back.  Don’t pro/con, just move forward in the direction of your dreams, as Emerson said.  If you say to yourself, “I am going to attract the coolest, most fun clients that will make working the best time I spend all day,” but then go and say, “I always get such duds as clients,” you will have a mixed vibration, and will end up staying in the same spot until the tide turns one way or the other to more positive or more negative.  Which will you choose?  If you keep doubts and fears alive, you won’t really ever get ahead, so go ahead and give yourself a chance for once, ok?  Your dreams are reachable, and increasing your belief in yourself a little at a time will definitely pay off!

Once you get in the habit of flowing thoughts such as positive affirmations using positive momentum, you will truly become a gifted creator that can bring mental ideas into reality, and you will do it more quickly as you focus better.  You may also like Happy for No Reason, by Marci Shimoff.  She advocates using success and happiness principles that can easily be learned to improve overall happiness.  The stuff we want is really a bi-product of that happiness.

In the movie, The Secret, the world finally learned that you can be happy AND learn manifesting tips to bring the “stuff” you want into reality as well.  It’s no secret that the secret is really happiness!

I love learning how to create the life I want and also uplift others along the way.  If you have a great story to share about this, please leave some comments below.

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Much love from Jen C.