What Tears of Joy mean

So many times in my life I was thrilled to experience the “tears of joy” that we all get. Something joyful happens and we tear up…but why do we do that?

What tears of joy really mean (usually, and I say this from my life experience) is that we are having a wonderful moment of joy, but we know it’s bittersweet, fleeting, and temporary (like for a child’s graduation and lots of things with children)…and we wish to experience it longer, and therefore, we experience a mixed emotion of what is really joy AND anguish about the timing.  I find that this happens to me a LOT!  I feel sincerely moved by the every day living of being a mother and watching my children grow up, watching relationships change over “time”, and the uniqueness of each person I am honored to behold.

I thought this was just my humble opinion, but then I actually found an Abraham-Hicks video about tears of joy…and although she doesn’t say exactly what I just did, she clarifies some cool stuff.

She says that if we are crying for any reason, we are not in the vortex, and the reason we cry when something feels really good is because we aren’t used to feeling good for an extended period of time.  With practicing gradually changing our vibrations, we can change to experience and notice more good in our every day lives, and the moments that would give us tears will give us more pure joy instead, and we’ll get used to living from that purer state.  I suppose I should be asking to manifest overflowing good feelings, so that I can share them with others, rather than observe life.

I like how she talks about relief and clarity!

Much love from Jen C.

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Manifest Emotions Not Manifestations for Stuff Money Cars Homes Relationships

Key Law of Attraction Point:  You want to feel good, so Manifest Emotions, not Manifestations, for stuff like money, cars, homes, relationships.  The joy is in the journey is what all the sages say.

Abraham teaches that we all “think” we would feel better if we had the things we want, but we have to feel good now, in order for the thing we want to manifest.  Yes, it seems most of us have gone about it backwards!

For the easiest manifesting, we have to feel the feeling of having it (the car, the love, the new job, etc.) already done. What does life look like when you already have the one thing you really want? (I do creative visualization and envision myself being happy in all the points of my day, enjoying fun with my family and friends, creating something within the community, good food and fun events together, and working at my leisure with perfect clients, so everything I do is easy, fun, and filled with goodness, abundance, and wellness.  I have all the qualities I want to possess.)

When we let go of “needing” it to be done asap, there is such a relief!  We can relax and enjoy the journey and the visualizations.  When we focus on feeling good, and just intending to feel love or peace, that love and peace begins to show up.  Acknowledge that in your own experience and watch more and more and better and better show up!  You will see a difference after a day or two, but it’s best to keep this up and play with it for 30 days or more.  Once you do that, you’ll keep changing it up.  🙂

I was just enjoying some positive aspects of one of my children and how she is more empowered, and I’m seeing evidence of that in my experience growing and building and strengthening.  I know it’s partly because of the work that I’m doing in my own mind (my emotional journey).  I take no credit for her experience, because it’s hers…BUT I know that I only notice the things I want to notice now, and empowerment is one of those emotions.

What emotions would you like to embody?  What change would you like to see in the world?

I want to see the evidence of love and peace, of kindness and compassion, of calm confidence, of support and abundance. When those things are my focus, I do see them.  When I revert back to watching the news, I start to see scarcity and hatred instead.  So, I’m smart enough to return my focus to what I am wanting, and it’s positive emotions, positive expectation, and positive beliefs.

Create some for yourself, manifest emotions instead of stuff, and come back and let us know how it’s going for you!  Much love from Jen C.

My LOA Article was Published on TheMasterShift

Hi, everybody.  Every day is different and usually very fun here at the Jersey Shore while I am enjoying life and manifesting the stuff I want, but recently, my LOA article was published on TheMasterShift.com, a site that I love!  I am so happy and thankful for moments like this that let me know that I am on the right path in my life.

Kudos for me, and kudos for you if you read it and get something out of it. 🙂  Be sure to come back here and leave a comment when you do.

Much love, Jen C.

Relating to someone who is lacking abundance homelessness sickness

I have an interest in relating to someone who is lacking abundance, because I always meet people who are sick or poor or miserable in this wonderful world.  I sometimes wish to get involved in a group action like a fundraiser, volunteering, or just being part of the activism or advocacy needed to help people get ahead.

I love this topic because, although there is a lot of controversy about “how” to get people to learn about abundance, there is always a way to reach people.  I am at ease because I know that all beings will eventually “get it” so I am not at all concerned about when.

What I am concerned about is…Is anybody out there teaching this Law of Attraction for the Homeless or the Sick?  I sure would love to!  I have 15 classes donated and I would be happy to offer a life coaching class, or a series of classes, to any advocates or homeless in our local area to teach this subject of learning abundance and prosperity with the right mindset. (If you get in touch in the comments, I’ll connect with you about it).

Have you ever felt like just giving money never really fixed the problems you wanted to fix when you donated the money? Find out WHY!

Here’s an Abraham-Hicks video on why it doesn’t really help to give money (helps only temporarily), rather than help the person get aligned with their true self using clarity and prosperity and abundance and the higher emotions.  I also love this video because it shows the advocates for homeless people HOW to think about the situation.  The key is to NOT think like a homeless person and relate to them, but rather to see the person as God would see them, as whole, as evolving, as abundant already.

Sympathy or empathy have been the buzzwords for decades, but rarely do you hear anybody talking about something beyond empathy…WOW!  There are emotions that are better than empathy…better than meeting the person where they are at (which lowers you).  Yes, it makes sense to raise them up to your higher vibration when you view them as abundant! That makes way more sense, yes?

I would love to hear your comments if you changed your thinking and then “found” more abundance as well, do tell!  Much love and prosperity for all!

Attracting More Money using LOA Finding the Feeling Place

Money is a great topic within the Law of Attraction, and seems to be one of the catalysts to get people to try using LOA. Money is only an exchange, so it’s neutral, just like the beautiful beads or shells that were once used as money!  Here’s today’s Manifesting Tip about Money, so you can attract more money using LOA.

Finding the feeling place of money is the question.  You can’t make money, attract clients, win in the market, get a raise, win the lottery, or get freebies and discounts if you are always doubting whether money is flowing to you, or if you are focusing on your Lack of these things!

You have to feel like money, like money is easily flowing all the time, regardless of your job or life situation!  Don’t pray for more money, instead you must feel like you already have it.  Along with general happiness and having a lot of appreciation, this is the way to feel your way to the money you want.  Then, visualize all the fun you will have with the money:  buying new things like clothes, cars, better house, luxuries you want, saving, and donating.  Realize your spreading your abundance is actually helping all the people you paid along the way.  And when you want them to be as happy as you, you can really soar with this.  Visualize all of this in the NOW, because the Universe knows no difference between reality and imagination.  Eventually, your imagined dreams will become your reality.

Here’s an Abraham-Hicks video to show you how to rampage happily into a better feeling place about money.  I hope you love it as much as I do.

Much love and money!

Finding the Feeling Place of Satisfaction and Relief

I’ve heard Esther Hicks say that the feeling of satisfaction is a lot like relief.  Feeling satisfied is so extremely important, it means we really like ourselves, and are happy in our current moment.  It means right now is good, and we aren’t looking ahead to the next moment or worrying about the past.  Satisfaction feels good.

What is the feeling place of satisfaction and relief for you?  Is it:

  • Doing well on a task and celebrating it?
  • Getting something done joyfully–like all your cleaning–and being satisfied with your work and your self?
  • Realizing that you handled a difficult situation well–with ease or patience or kindness?
  • Knowing that so many things are lining up for you–and you created them?
  • Believing in yourself and your own abilities?
  • Feeling like you are so good–just because you are, or because of your performance?
  • Just feeling good where you are at, right now?

If these are the kinds of things that make you feel satisfied, then you are well on your way to being more happy with yourself.  You must have a strong current of self talk that uplifts you, and having satisfaction is an easy way to keep in a higher vibration.  Enjoy who you are, reach for feelings of satisfaction and relief, and watch what happens!  Try to find the feeling place of satisfaction more often, ask for it, and you will be given it.

Much love!  See my monthly calendar here!