Feel Like Your Life is a Masterpiece

No matter where you are in your life, you have to feel like you yourself are an accomplishment.  Like you are the value and purpose of your own life.

Wait…you don’t always feel like that?  I know.  We’ve all been told we’re not enough.  We’ve all suffered and told ourselves that we weren’t strong, that we’re messed up.

But what if all of that was wrong…because we focused on what was wrong with us (or what we were lacking), and that we weren’t looking at what was right with us?

As Dr. Wayne Dyer said, “When you change the things you look at, the things you look at change.”  Doesn’t that stop and give you pause?

Spending time dissecting all the things I did wrong was a pasttime of mine, and I know I’m pretty normal, so I am guessing most people–especially women–do this.  But we don’t have to.

And I won’t any longer.  Feeling strong in what is good about me is now my pasttime.  I feel great knowing that I’m special and loved, I’m adored because Source loves me.  And I am comforted that Source loves every single one of us.  Equally.

And that because we’re eternal, there is no end to the creating.  If I don’t ever figure out how to relax in this lifetime, it’s ok.  I have many lifetimes.

What is going right with me?  A heck of a lot!  Most of me is pleasing to me, and I take pleasure in finding what is good in myself.  And because I took the time to learn this for myself, I can actually see more of the good in others as well.

IF you have trouble finding what is going right with yourself, consider coming to a Women’s Sacred Circle and get in touch with our community of Beautiful Goddesses that would completely adore you and remind you that you are amazing.  There is no need to wait.  You deserve all good right now.  With nothing to prove, join ours or any other women’s circle for some awesome vibes.

We meet a few times a month for these Women’s Circles in Belmar and Brick, NJ.

The remembering is what is important.  Because we all would remember if we could release the toxic ideas we started believing about ourselves.  We each have the power to turn all that upside down!  to get our personal power back!  It’s easier and more fun than you think, just gradually building new ideas about self, so that you can allow yourself to become this Masterpiece.

Lotsa love from Jen C., The LOA Life Coach

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Keeping the Mind Busy

You know what is a gigantic helper for the mood?

Just doing something and completely immersing yourself. By paying attention to something other than yourself and your feelings, you can guide your vibe into a helpful place.

So if you are in a bad mood, and you need a lift, have you ever just shifted focus by going to work and being in the moment there, and then felt better?  Or gone home from work and enjoyed your family and forgotten about work?

It’s totally OK to trick your mind!  In fact, it’s preferred to trying so hard to get out of a bad mood or “make something happen”.  Just doing one thing well and staying put in that moment creates an enjoyable experience.  Not worrying about the past or future.  Just staying put in a happy state.

Or, after a long week, maybe you take time to enjoy something like a girl’s night out, or donate your time to help someone else.

When you take your mind off of YOU, you actually feel better.

You don’t have to constantly be in a positive affirmation!  You just need to relax and find enough relief TO enjoy the present.  And you are getting better at this all the time. You got this!  Progress, not perfection, right?

It’s useful to have a mixture of tools, so this is one of the many LOA techniques that bring you back into alignment.  And alignment is everything.

We’re always looking at our conscious creating, and trying to work together to get better at it, and support each other.  We love, we care, we network, we support.  Women’s Sacred Circles and taking time out to really see each other, appreciate each other is what makes this movement special.

See my Facebook page for LOA Events such as Women’s Circles and Money Vibe Groups coming up in the Central NJ area.

Be sure to comment about what your favorite way to keep your mind busy so that you can pass on the love to others, and learn something new to keep your alignment!

Lotsa love from Jen C. the LOA Life Coach 848-232-8392 for a free 10 minute consult.

Focus Wheel and Focus are Key for Success

I was blown away by this Focus Wheel video from Abraham-Hicks, and focus is truly the key for LOA success.  This process is very effective to move you into better feeling thoughts, and make you feel more certain and sure about where you are going.  (The example here is someone asking about Real Estate success, but really does apply to anyone).

If you would like to see/hear/feel how the Focus Wheel process works, this is the perfect way to find out.  The wheel has a statement that you begin with and then you proceed to add some similar feeling statements, that you keep general enough in the earlier stages, and you get more specific as you gain in positive momentum/clarity/strength/belief.

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Enjoy, and all the best!  Much love and blessings from Jen C., the LOA Life Coach

Join me at the Good Vibe University for lots of fun, LOA tips, and joyful feelings.

Tipping the Scales

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Don’t you just love the feeling of knowing that Source is obviously loving you and adoring you?  I am so there!  I feel that Source is flowing what seems to be all good things directly to me, like there is a pipeline with all my favorite everything on the way.

Lately, I have been feeling like my life is so full of good people and situations, like everything I want is already here.  I have been doing the new story that goes with it, so I am not at all surprised that I feel good where I’m at.

But not so long ago, I was kind of cranky and somewhat miserable, maybe even hopeless!  It was gradual changes, intentional changes, over time…and looking back it seems like years.

I look now at my life and am so completely Happy, and feeling more Satisfied with each passing day.  I know this comes only from the emotional journey I’ve been on, and that anyone can do that as well.

If you need some direction, follow your heart.  If you are unhappy where you are, stop and listen.  You have the answers you need.  The answers are never “out there”.  Yet, remember that it is the inner “work” that creates your reality, so start talking yourself up and tip the scales in your favor!

Much love and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA Life Coach

Inspired Life

Do you know if you are living an inspired life?

Have you thought about following through on your biggest ideas and plans lately?  As the end of the year quickly approaches, it’s time to get real about if your life is really what you’ve defined it would be.

How do you “know” that your life has meaning?  Can you feel it?

How do you define yourself and what matters to you? More

General LOA Affirmations for Ease and Clarity

I love to play around with intentions, and often find myself practicing 30 days of a particular vibration until I am that new vibe.  So, here are some general LOA affirmations for Ease and Clarity, that I am sure Abraham and Esther Hicks probably has extensive info on as well.  I always begin by closing my eyes, relaxing my entire body from head to toe, and then relaxing my mind.  When I am in this alpha state of mind, I speak my truths and reprogram my heart and mind to tune into my new desires and intentions.  I remember that if I have asked, it is given, and so I believe it as a done deal.  The Manager/LOA will take care of my every wish, like the Genie in the lamp.

This is a Rampage of Appreciation or Rampage of Ease and Clarity. If you are new to Law of Attraction, or an old timer, I would definitely try 30 days of this new vibe and see how far you can go with it, changing the words to suit yourself, of course.  This original rampage would take you far beyond the 68 seconds of momentum that would guarantee the better feelings you are wanting, so enjoy. More

What We Are Able to Perceive

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What we are able to perceive is a reflection of the state of mind and heart we are in.  Did you ever notice that when you are in a bad mood, more bad things keep happening?  Or if you are in a good mood, there is no end to the fun you have?

The reason is that we are only able to perceive within whatever vibration we are in.

  • If we are vibing “no money” we keep seeing no money in the situations we encounter and in our bank accounts.
  • If we are vibing “bad relationships” many things can go wrong within a few different relationships, even ones we enjoy.
  • If we are vibing “sickness”, we get more sickness!

The way to get out of this cycle, is to intend to feel good before you even get out of bed.  Intend to feel what God wants us to feel, which is good, relief, joy, happiness, and comfort.  Of course, there are many more higher energy vibes you could begin with, but I think this is a great starting point.  Where ever you are at, you can make the decision to just start being happy for no reason, and watch the LOA do it’s job.  Life gets easier and easier when you are being a Deliberate Creator, enjoying the process of vibing what you want, rather than waiting for the other shoe to drop all the time.

So, we are only able to perceive certain things, and the emotions and powers we want to have or be, sometimes seem invisible to us…and that is actually true.  With so many realities to choose from, we literally could be anything we want.  We get to choose, we get to pick that vibe.  Pay attention–wake up!  See what you are really vibing today, and see what it makes you wish to intend for tomorrow as you are laying in bed.

Intend to feel good, and pick one of the categories above to plan out better feelings for–Money, Relationships, or Health, and see where you are after doing it for 30 days.  Your gradual change will almost guarantee your success, so you can look at your life and actually feel great looking at it, as is, rather than how you would like it to be.  BUT, until then, use your imagination to get where you want to go, stay happy along the way, and you will get there!  Your better overall mood will bring you better results in your whole life, so all three topics could be affected at the same time.

Put your best vibe out there!  Your Highest Self feels the best emotions for you, and you can also.  If you don’t like your results, start vibing something more…expand yourself so that you can BE more.  Your perceptions will change over time.

Much love, and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA Life Coach.

It’s never too late

Just a little daily inspiration or personal development is all you need, and here Kyle Cease does an excellent job of explaining how we need to look within for whatever we want in life–it all comes from within.

All the good comes to us, because we have a foundation for it established within.  Change your paradigm every day, look within every day, you will be so happy and thankful that you did.  It is never too late to put your feet in the grass, walk in the sand, smell the forest, and play with children, make love to someone special, share your stories, help someone else…these are the things that matter most!  Always look for and be open to your ultimate purpose.

Much love and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA Life Coach

Judge not by appearances Neale Donald Walsh

I got a lot out of this video and wanted to share it.  It’s about how the universe says only, “Yes,” and that we have to line up with getting rid of all lack and fears and doubts, and that our wishes will be fulfilled.

You will laugh when you see how easy it is, so it’s just something to think about as the weekend approaches.  I know all is well, and that it always will be, and I hope you’ll get so much out of it that you’ll be jumping for joy.

But the end is VERY profound, in that the “judge not by appearances” has so many meanings. See for yourself!

Much love and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA Coach

What do you want to do with your time 28000 Jelly Beans

I saw this cool Jelly Bean video today and thought, I’d really like to share this, because it will make people think!

What are your 10 favorite things to do?  What things do you really love?  I really did teach myself to read music and play really basic guitar–but I DID IT!  And, yes, it brings me great satisfaction that I thought I was a lost cause at playing music when I was younger, and I got over that limiting belief easily as an adult.

What do you want to have time for?  What kind of ease do you want in your life?  Just being outside more, smelling fresh air? I live one mile from the beach here in NJ, and I have the best of everything, the beach is close, trees and forests within a few minutes, cultural centers like NYC, Philly, and Princeton all 1-2 hours away.  What’s your getaway?  What settings bring you the peace you desire?

What about your life’s purpose?  This jelly bean diagram really made me think that I’d better get more focused to achieve certain goals, but also then, I remembered what LOA teaches–to relax, be happy, have fun, and that is really what brings us closer to our dreams.

You can have ALL you want and more, if you are only HOPEFUL that you can and keep your thoughts aligned with getting it (instead of NOT getting it or being miserable).  That’s the magic formula from Abraham-Hicks, “Ask, Believe, and Receive.”

So, enjoy this 28000 Jelly Beans video, and see what it means to you.  Maybe you’ll want to spend more time with the people you care about, do what inspires you, and have more fun, and I really hope you will.  Much love and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA Coach

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