Shadow Work or LOA

Did you ever wonder how effective Shadow Work by Carl Jung is?  When I was in college, I learned about Carl Jung and felt a strange belief, an alignment with him and what he delved into.

However, I always had issues with psychology in general because it was fixated on finding something wrong with people!  So, I found issues with all of psychology, and thought there was more to it, that people were far more than one little part of their lives, or any observable behavior.

Shadow work involves looking at fears, the parts of you that you didn’t or weren’t able to observe, to shed light on them and to actually gain strength and understanding.

Yet, my experience was the opposite!  Every time I looked hard at what I feared, I created more of that!  So the Law of Attraction is always at work…

The Law of Attraction says that whatever you focus on you create, and it’s true no matter how good the intention is.  If the focus is fear, weakness, and problems, guess what I was creating more of?

(See the rest of this blog and my newer one at www.sourcehearsyes.com for more info on using your own intuition about what to do.)

I’ve met a lot of people through my work as a teacher, guidance counselor, and LOA Life Coach that really think they have to “work through” and struggle with their past in order to figure it out.  Nothing could be further from the truth.

Sometimes we just can’t see or believe for a while, even if someone is pointing it out.  We like to stay and complain for a while, often for decades about the same problem, rather than truly shining the light on it or ourselves.  Shining the light feels like forgiveness and freedom, it feels like choice, it feels like movement into something new.  That is why I love Abraham, to always guide me towards what is good for me.

BUT I can only reach so far with LOA, so the changes need to be gradual.

I finally heard an Abraham-Hicks video on this exact topic, but have known that we can’t feel good looking at our problems!  I’ve always felt more comfortable looking at what is right, at our strengths, at our gifts.  I hope you enjoy this LOA gem, and remember to keep moving forward in positive momentum toward your joys.  Stay in the light, don’t keep looking at the dark!

I became a life coach because I believe in the goodness of people, that they deserve to feel great.  If you are ready to focus yourself into your greatness, text or call me for a free 15 minute consult at 848-232-8392.

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Stop Jumping Around with Law of Attraction Energy Practices

You know those people.

They complain that nothing is working.  They’ve tried “everything”.  Yet, still…no results.  I have news for you.  They aren’t really practicing then.

You see, nobody needs a toolbox with thousands of tools, or needs to read every book by every expert.  Yet, so many jump from person to person’s wealth of “knowledge” just to see what they know.  But then–they don’t dedicate much time to an actual PRACTICE, so they still don’t get very far with any one thing.

Nothing improves for this person, their life sucks, they say, or that they have major problems in every area, career, family, money, and health.

You find yourself giving them your words of wisdom about being positive, but you really know that IF they were practicing any one energy practice, they would see gradual results.  But you are a good friend so maybe you won’t say a thing (because you’ll just LOA ignore them)…

IF you happen to be the jumper, that’s ok…take a deep breath and just release that need to learn more and practice later.  Just get comfortable practicing now.  Whatever you want, practice now.

If you are feeling lonely and isolated, go out and practice being with others.  Give someone the gift of YOU, and others will see you and welcome you. (Go into it with frustration and anger and others will not want you there).

If you are unhappy with yourself in some way, release the need to be perfect and embrace that you are in exactly the right spot that is needed for the changes you want.  And now the changes can come.  There is something to be happy about right now, that the sun was there to light our planet (even if you didn’t find anything personal…look around at the systems put in place that our human laws can’t explain).

If you are disappointed you haven’t reached your goal yet, meditate and get quiet.  Feel that you are moving in the right direction now.  Source always has a way to bring your favorite people, things, and fun to you, but only if you get into receiving mode.  Yes, it can happen, and yes, it can be easy.  Even your whole life can be easy.  If you can practice ease now.

Stop jumping from program to program and stick with things that work, such as:

  1. Meditation
  2. Journaling
  3. Being Present

There are lots of law of attraction books and teachers and systems and you may have tried a few or many.  Think about what works, and it’s usually something simple and easy.  So that is what I like to promote, that you have this innate ability to get back to that simple and easy approach and make it yours.  You are completely intuitive and meant to use it!!

You are a goldmine of good qualities, and these qualities can come out when you are free from interference of the mind.  These three items, meditation, journaling, and being present all have the idea of being present and being comfortable with yourself.

I’m sure I’ll post later about how to be more comfortable with yourself, but if you have a suggestion for a specific post, please leave me a comment about what you’d like me to write about, and I’ll be happy to oblige!

For now, please get in touch for your free LOA Consult, just call or text me at 848-232-8392 so we can set up a time, and I can help you set up a specific plan that is just as simple and easy.  And phone consults make your life so much easier.

Lotsa love from Jen C. the LOA Life Coach

 

 

 

 

 

 

Money and Abundance

Here’s a nice short clip from Abraham-Hicks about Money and Abundance and how they are related.  Get this:  money comes from overall ALIGNMENT, that is all it is.  And, I’ve often heard it said that money is a way to say, “Thank you,” for what you receive.

You want and need money, but are you Aligned often?  Once in a while?  Frequently?

Get clear for yourself about what values you hold, and be honest about if you are following those values.  If you are not, you feel negative emotions, and this is what blocks good things from flowing into your lives.  If you feel great, then there is likely money flowing already.

If you want to understand this relationship about Alignment and Money, just try to be generally happier each day…at some point soon you will realize that more money is flowing to you.  Let me know when you see the change!  Much love and many blessings, from Jen C., the LOA Life Coach

 

Have you thanked your Angels

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I have been meditating lately on this topic, Have you thanked your Angels?  And I am very engrossed with this idea that the Angels are everywhere and in everything, just like Spirit.

So, how could any of us have done anything without them?  We give ourselves all the credit when something goes right, but blame others when something goes wrong.  But the truth is, as soon as we ask, it is given–it is only ourselves who block the delivery of our desires.

Even still, it’s other beings who know what we desire and are orchestrating them FOR us, on our behalf.  We all also have a Higher Self, and maybe these two are truly the same, I don’t really know!

One thing I do know for sure is that without others, I would have nothing.  Everything we have comes through someone else, and has been given to us through an invisible network of beings and God.  I realized I haven’t been thanking Universe enough for all the good I do have, and the Angels working on my behalf IS Good that I do have!

For this holiday season, and maybe into January and February, I think it’s worth it to ponder what these Angels do just because we ask for something.  No one is asking me to prove I am good enough, or to show my worth.  Everything is just given to me.  Because I am.

I hope you can wake up feeling great every day, realize how amazing you truly are, and do something nice for someone else, knowing that you are someone else’s Angel as well.  Make sure you thank your Angels today, you won’t be sorry!

Much love and many blessings from Jen C., The LOA Life Coach

Intention to Feel Good

 

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It’s surprising that so many of us new age thinkers forget to set the intention to feel good each day!

I homeschool my two young girls, and didn’t get to sleep until 3 am, so maybe I slept until 7.  I am alert and feeling alright though.  I “need” to be alive and fun and peaceful, not cranky and needy myself, if I am going to be a good parent and a great teacher.

How?  I set the intention to feel great through the day.  That means regardless of what I put in my body or what conditions show up that I may not like.

I was reading the workbook to the Conversations With God series, and it definitely hit me, to choose an intention for each day of the week (seven, one for each day) was such an uplifting idea…a way to incorporate the feelings I want seamlessly.

I choose:

  • Monday-Joy,
  • Tuesday-Compassion,
  • Wednesday-Happiness,
  • Thursday-Unconditional Love,
  • Friday–Unconditional Clarity,
  • Saturday–Peace,
  • Sunday-Organization.

Just a nice way to “remember” who I really Am.  Who do you want to be today?  Who do you want to be next year?  You don’t have to wait, you can feel those feelings now!

Go enjoy your day and your life, have some humor.  Know that you are so loved, and so adored by your true Parent, God.  All opinions of others don’t matter at all.  Only your own connection to your true self, which IS GOD.

I don’t always get perfect sleep, I just keep on intending what I want, and all things good keep coming, like better relationships.  If you are thinking you want to change your life, practice some LOA tips here and you are also well on your way to becoming wealthy.

Much love and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA Life Coach

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Using LOA for weaning toddlers

Explicit language and ideas.  Don’t read if you can’t handle.  My littlest is weaning and is very close to actually stopping her nursing at bedtime.  Any attachment parent knows that this can be a lovely transition into her “big girl” status, and some folks like me know that this is LOA all the way.

Some parents choose to end their nursing when they want (which can be good for some) but my belief is that making a child unhappy (when nursing/feeding this way is what they were meant to do) in order to make the adult happy can lead to quite a few problems in the child.  More

It’s never too late

Just a little daily inspiration or personal development is all you need, and here Kyle Cease does an excellent job of explaining how we need to look within for whatever we want in life–it all comes from within.

All the good comes to us, because we have a foundation for it established within.  Change your paradigm every day, look within every day, you will be so happy and thankful that you did.  It is never too late to put your feet in the grass, walk in the sand, smell the forest, and play with children, make love to someone special, share your stories, help someone else…these are the things that matter most!  Always look for and be open to your ultimate purpose.

Much love and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA Life Coach

Don’t Limit Yourself Dream Big

Great rampage of keeping up with the stream of abundance, dreaming big, and not limiting yourself! Abraham always delivers such pearls, and I am so happy and thankful to have access to the best energy raisers possible.

This video mentions how people basically give up on their big dreams if those dreams don’t come true, especially when they are young.  Then, we plan to have smaller dreams so that we won’t get hurt again when our dreams don’t come true! We’re not supposed to do that!  We’re supposed to keep on feeling alive!  Keep on dreaming big, but know that our vibration is what really matters.  So, here, Abraham says don’t give up on the vibration.

Have focus.  You can do it!

Much love and many blessings from Jen C. the LOA Coach!

Self Help Esteem Help

I love Self Help Esteem Help and the whole world of changing paradigms, shifting reality, quantum jumping, creative visualizations, and creating myself.

One thing Esther Hicks says is that “you don’t want their awareness of you, you want your awareness of you.”  Don’t let other people’s opinions of you become who you think you are.  Who you are is a being of love, peace, and freedom.  You came from an unlimited Source and you can create yourself and your environment in the same way, by changing your thoughts gradually over time.

She emphasizes using, “I love how I feel” because feeling good for no reason is one of the keys to happiness. More

Manifest Emotions Not Manifestations for Stuff Money Cars Homes Relationships

Key Law of Attraction Point:  You want to feel good, so Manifest Emotions, not Manifestations, for stuff like money, cars, homes, relationships.  The joy is in the journey is what all the sages say.

Abraham teaches that we all “think” we would feel better if we had the things we want, but we have to feel good now, in order for the thing we want to manifest.  Yes, it seems most of us have gone about it backwards!

For the easiest manifesting, we have to feel the feeling of having it (the car, the love, the new job, etc.) already done. What does life look like when you already have the one thing you really want? (I do creative visualization and envision myself being happy in all the points of my day, enjoying fun with my family and friends, creating something within the community, good food and fun events together, and working at my leisure with perfect clients, so everything I do is easy, fun, and filled with goodness, abundance, and wellness.  I have all the qualities I want to possess.)

When we let go of “needing” it to be done asap, there is such a relief!  We can relax and enjoy the journey and the visualizations.  When we focus on feeling good, and just intending to feel love or peace, that love and peace begins to show up.  Acknowledge that in your own experience and watch more and more and better and better show up!  You will see a difference after a day or two, but it’s best to keep this up and play with it for 30 days or more.  Once you do that, you’ll keep changing it up.  🙂

I was just enjoying some positive aspects of one of my children and how she is more empowered, and I’m seeing evidence of that in my experience growing and building and strengthening.  I know it’s partly because of the work that I’m doing in my own mind (my emotional journey).  I take no credit for her experience, because it’s hers…BUT I know that I only notice the things I want to notice now, and empowerment is one of those emotions.

What emotions would you like to embody?  What change would you like to see in the world?

I want to see the evidence of love and peace, of kindness and compassion, of calm confidence, of support and abundance. When those things are my focus, I do see them.  When I revert back to watching the news, I start to see scarcity and hatred instead.  So, I’m smart enough to return my focus to what I am wanting, and it’s positive emotions, positive expectation, and positive beliefs.

Create some for yourself, manifest emotions instead of stuff, and come back and let us know how it’s going for you!  Much love from Jen C.