Feel Like Your Life is a Masterpiece

No matter where you are in your life, you have to feel like you yourself are an accomplishment.  Like you are the value and purpose of your own life.

Wait…you don’t always feel like that?  I know.  We’ve all been told we’re not enough.  We’ve all suffered and told ourselves that we weren’t strong, that we’re messed up.

But what if all of that was wrong…because we focused on what was wrong with us (or what we were lacking), and that we weren’t looking at what was right with us?

As Dr. Wayne Dyer said, “When you change the things you look at, the things you look at change.”  Doesn’t that stop and give you pause?

Spending time dissecting all the things I did wrong was a pasttime of mine, and I know I’m pretty normal, so I am guessing most people–especially women–do this.  But we don’t have to.

And I won’t any longer.  Feeling strong in what is good about me is now my pasttime.  I feel great knowing that I’m special and loved, I’m adored because Source loves me.  And I am comforted that Source loves every single one of us.  Equally.

And that because we’re eternal, there is no end to the creating.  If I don’t ever figure out how to relax in this lifetime, it’s ok.  I have many lifetimes.

What is going right with me?  A heck of a lot!  Most of me is pleasing to me, and I take pleasure in finding what is good in myself.  And because I took the time to learn this for myself, I can actually see more of the good in others as well.

IF you have trouble finding what is going right with yourself, consider coming to a Women’s Sacred Circle and get in touch with our community of Beautiful Goddesses that would completely adore you and remind you that you are amazing.  There is no need to wait.  You deserve all good right now.  With nothing to prove, join ours or any other women’s circle for some awesome vibes.

We meet a few times a month for these Women’s Circles in Belmar and Brick, NJ.

The remembering is what is important.  Because we all would remember if we could release the toxic ideas we started believing about ourselves.  We each have the power to turn all that upside down!  to get our personal power back!  It’s easier and more fun than you think, just gradually building new ideas about self, so that you can allow yourself to become this Masterpiece.

Lotsa love from Jen C., The LOA Life Coach

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Gaining or Losing Confidence after Divorce

I have to share a really personal story, because I believe it has real relevance for anyone out there. Although losing confidence after divorce is so typical, I believe there is a benefit to notice that gaining confidence IS possible after a life changing event, even if the event appears to be “negative.” It is my experience, that although most divorcing people attempt to get friends and family to understand their side of the arguments they put forth, it is never one-sided!  People in the midst of divorce feel stifled and suffocated by their spouse at times, and sometimes the divorce is seen as the answer to “free” the person of the ball and chain.  Through the divorce, a person can feel free enough to now pursue the ideas, ideals, dreams, or goals that they did not feel they could arrange within the marriage. Truth be told, it theoretically could be possible to be free within the marriage as well, but that would take a path to allow freedom for both partners. Very hard to accept blame when a spouse believes he/she has been wronged, and it’s far easier to blame the other…

If one’s confidence is tied to another’s opinion of you, you will be a sitting duck during a divorce. More