Expectation is Everything when you want to Manifest Anything

Why does life feel good?  You expect good things to happen and they do?  My experience has been that expectation is everything when you want to manifest anything!

It doesn’t matter what you want–you must act like it’s happening now, know that it’s coming, feel all the feelings of having it, think about why you want it, and trust that it IS.  When you live like the one thing you want is the only option, the other paths fall away, and the true path opens.

Just like graduating high school or college, getting a job, moving into a relationship…you know that if you follow certain steps you will eventually get there.  Most teens expect to graduate.  What they do from there, may be more ambiguous, but they still are creating their lives.  It’s all their choice really, although us parents entertain the illusion that somehow “we” set our kids up for their successes.

Look at love, or finding love!  If you are really wishy-washy about what you want, your date choices reflect that.  It’s in choosing a path that we find out who we are…Are we discerning?  Are we too picky and therefore judgmental, making others bad because they aren’t just like us?  Are we direct and openly caring?  What qualities do you want in a mate?  I hope you could want some of these attributes, and feel these often in your own life in order to BECOME each quality.  You must BE it to get it.  Goodness, Worthy, Love, Passion, Joyful, Happy, Healthy, Faithful, Loyal, Playful, Free, Romantic, Thoughtful, Caring, Forgiving, Calm, Peaceful, Enthusiastic, Energetic, Eager, Flexible, Rich, Affluent, Abundant, and whatever else you can create.  It’s when we relax that that magic happens.  We have this expectation that our lives will get better and better, so then we just go and create some fun for ourselves, and then, that’s when a potential partner shows up.

So, Abraham-Hicks teaches all this good expectation stuff, but in a general way.  We can want anything at all, and if we feel good, we should expect to get it.  Conversations With God says something similar, in that we should let go of expectation for specific things and enjoy the process, like “the joy is in the journey.”  In the end, everything is perfect and right for us, so we can stop judging everything as good or bad (which would remove thousands of negative thoughts about ourselves daily).  We can be happy on the way to where we are going, because we’ll always be on the way.  We never cease to be, we just change our energies and our bodies and our families through lifetimes of the illusion of being born.

We can just be our authentic, higher self, and live every moment as if we know Who We Are, and make our decisions about what to think, say, and do based on if it fits our image of us as our Higher Selves.  If we had complete faith, we would only expect good things, so don’t get caught up in specifics too much, surrender more, trust more, and you will be golden.

That sounds easy, right?  Much love and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA Coach


Money Consciousness

What is your money truth?  Get your money consciousness up to par! Start telling your money story with better expectations and see where you get!  Whatever you think about, especially with great feeling is what you get in life, so what are you thinking about?

What are your dominant thoughts all day?  Scientists say we think about 60,000 thoughts every day!  If you spent the majority of your time thinking about how you displease others or others displease you, how bad others are, and how you aren’t good enough to achieve your dreams, then you are thinking negative!

If the majority of your thoughts are about good things, expecting good things to happen for yourself and your loved ones, and seeing the good things actually come, then you probably have a good money consciousness as well…money just follows a healthy, good mood!

The Abraham-Hicks In the Vortex CD offers four really good 15-minute meditations on Overall Happiness, Money, Health, and Relationships.  Listening to this CD has given me much relief from all of my monkey mind issues!  One important topic in the CD is that raising your general and overall happiness level, by appreciating all you do have and noticing what IS going right in your life, brings you more happiness and usually, more money as well.

But this video is awesome because it really gives good perspective on how to raise your vibration around money.

Check this out and see if it offers you something wonderful also!  Thank you so much for stopping by.  Much love and many blessings from Jen C., the LOA Coach

Manifest Emotions Not Manifestations for Stuff Money Cars Homes Relationships

Key Law of Attraction Point:  You want to feel good, so Manifest Emotions, not Manifestations, for stuff like money, cars, homes, relationships.  The joy is in the journey is what all the sages say.

Abraham teaches that we all “think” we would feel better if we had the things we want, but we have to feel good now, in order for the thing we want to manifest.  Yes, it seems most of us have gone about it backwards!

For the easiest manifesting, we have to feel the feeling of having it (the car, the love, the new job, etc.) already done. What does life look like when you already have the one thing you really want? (I do creative visualization and envision myself being happy in all the points of my day, enjoying fun with my family and friends, creating something within the community, good food and fun events together, and working at my leisure with perfect clients, so everything I do is easy, fun, and filled with goodness, abundance, and wellness.  I have all the qualities I want to possess.)

When we let go of “needing” it to be done asap, there is such a relief!  We can relax and enjoy the journey and the visualizations.  When we focus on feeling good, and just intending to feel love or peace, that love and peace begins to show up.  Acknowledge that in your own experience and watch more and more and better and better show up!  You will see a difference after a day or two, but it’s best to keep this up and play with it for 30 days or more.  Once you do that, you’ll keep changing it up.  🙂

I was just enjoying some positive aspects of one of my children and how she is more empowered, and I’m seeing evidence of that in my experience growing and building and strengthening.  I know it’s partly because of the work that I’m doing in my own mind (my emotional journey).  I take no credit for her experience, because it’s hers…BUT I know that I only notice the things I want to notice now, and empowerment is one of those emotions.

What emotions would you like to embody?  What change would you like to see in the world?

I want to see the evidence of love and peace, of kindness and compassion, of calm confidence, of support and abundance. When those things are my focus, I do see them.  When I revert back to watching the news, I start to see scarcity and hatred instead.  So, I’m smart enough to return my focus to what I am wanting, and it’s positive emotions, positive expectation, and positive beliefs.

Create some for yourself, manifest emotions instead of stuff, and come back and let us know how it’s going for you!  Much love from Jen C.

The Emotional Journey

The teachings of Abraham speak of “The Emotional Journey” that a person must take before he/she actually receives the object of desire.  The emotional journey is when you are getting ready for and aligning with this desire.  Some people say, “I’m going to get a new job,” and then they do the steps that lead them to it with ease, and they actually get the job.  Others say, “I’m going to get a new job,” and then fill their minds up with self doubt, and spending a large portion of their time talking about how hundreds of people are applying for it, and only one person will actually get this job.  This person is unlikely to make progress.

What’s the difference?  It’s in the emotional journey from Point A to Point B.  The first person is completely aligned about getting the job, so there is little resistance to having it.  The second is full of reasons why he won’t get the job, and so he won’t. If a person truly believes that he deserves something good, expects it to happen, and also really desires it, then it will come.

Do this exercise for yourself and you will see where you are about having belief, expectation, and desire.  Think about something you want that you really believe you will manifest, maybe even easily.  And think about another thing you want that you believe would be more difficult.  Track the outcomes of each.  I know if you follow your feelings, it will feel good to manifest the easy one, and it will feel slower and it will be more frustrating as you want to manifest the harder one.  It’s about focus, and the belief, expectation, and desire though.  Really explore what your beliefs are so you can drop the limiting beliefs on each topic that aren’t serving you.

Then focus solely on the good feelings you want from the desire–that is what will drive you to reach the goals you want to achieve.  If your desire is to get a new car, feel that feeling of driving it in the now, and spend a few minutes, even just once a day feeling that great feeling, as if it’s already manifested for you.  This is what I mean by focus.  Do not entertain all of the naysayers that say you can’t have a new car.  Do not worry about how you will get the car, or how you will pay for it. Keep the focus on the feeling of having it and how great it feels to be driving it, parking it, washing it, how easy your life is with this car. Once you start practicing this way of thinking (the vibration of a new car) you are on your way to it.

If your desire is just making a little more money, like $100 or $200 more a month, that is easy to ask for.  Just think about how good it will be to spend that money in the way you desire, such as allowing the children to do more activities, or putting a few more dollars into savings.  Feel how powerful you feel, as you have the ability to use money to your advantage each month.  The money is just passing from person to person, spreading abundance to others after you.  You are part of this global economy that is always changing and creating more, so there is enough for everyone.  It’s easy to feel good for most of the day, receive the good you deserve, and then pass it along to the next person.  You can happily receive all the good things you want.

Remember, don’t be wishy washy and go back and forth about your desire.  If you really want something, don’t tell yourself you can’t have it.

Much love, Jen C.