Attracting the Right Perfect Clients

22 Mar 2015 Leave a comment

by holisticjen in Abraham-Hicks, Attracting Clients, Manifesting, Marci Shimoff, Money Vibration Tags: , , , , , , ,

I love helping people find or attract the right perfect clients.  Living where I live, I am a SAHM and homeschooling two of my daughters, I love being able to work part time while combining a few ways to work from home.  So, being able to find great clients is really important for face to face meetings or running a business online.

I got some very awesome minutes of Jeannette Maw’s (at the Good Vibe Blog) time a while back, after she did a course on attracting the best clients, and she said that we have to learn the vibration of clients…Huh?  Clients have a vibration???????

She said if we think about how we are “not attracting clients”, not attracting clients who will pay, not attracting clients that are perfectly suited for us in our practices…then, we just don’t understand the vibration of clients.

So, if you want to attract the right and perfect clients for your business, what does the vibration of having amazing clients feel like?  For starters, it’s easy.  Life is easy, so, work is also easy and fun.  I enjoy going to work, I love knowing that a stream of perfect clients continually and endlessly flow to me, at exactly the right time for me.  I love the excitement of where each day will go, and my expansion as I go with it.  I love going with the flow of life, and I know life keeps bringing me more fun ways to enjoy my work.  My clients love me because I’m a gifted (you fill in the blank…coach, planner, stylist, mechanic) and help people realize their desires.

You line up with the path of attracting the right clients, and you don’t look back.  Don’t pro/con, just move forward in the direction of your dreams, as Emerson said.  If you say to yourself, “I am going to attract the coolest, most fun clients that will make working the best time I spend all day,” but then go and say, “I always get such duds as clients,” you will have a mixed vibration, and will end up staying in the same spot until the tide turns one way or the other to more positive or more negative.  Which will you choose?  If you keep doubts and fears alive, you won’t really ever get ahead, so go ahead and give yourself a chance for once, ok?  Your dreams are reachable, and increasing your belief in yourself a little at a time will definitely pay off!

Once you get in the habit of flowing thoughts such as positive affirmations using positive momentum, you will truly become a gifted creator that can bring mental ideas into reality, and you will do it more quickly as you focus better.  You may also like Happy for No Reason, by Marci Shimoff.  She advocates using success and happiness principles that can easily be learned to improve overall happiness.  The stuff we want is really a bi-product of that happiness.

In the movie, The Secret, the world finally learned that you can be happy AND learn manifesting tips to bring the “stuff” you want into reality as well.  It’s no secret that the secret is really happiness!

I love learning how to create the life I want and also uplift others along the way.  If you have a great story to share about this, please leave some comments below.

Learn about becoming a blogger or creating your own site and loving a part time gig!

Much love from Jen C.

11 Forgotten Laws of the Universe by Bob Proctor and Mary Morrissey

05 Mar 2015 4 Comments

by holisticjen in 11 Forgotten Laws, Abraham-Hicks, Bob Proctor, Manifesting Tips, Universal Laws Tags: , , , , , , , , , ,

I love the 11 Forgotten Laws of the Universe, and Bob Proctor and Mary Morrissey are gifted and natural teachers. I am writing about this topic today because it is of interest to me, because it expands me every time I think about it, and because it may also do the same for you. Considering that the Law of Attraction is the most focused upon law, and according to Esther Hicks, it’s also the strongest, these other laws are unknown or not explored much.  I’ve become so much happier working with each of these laws, accepting them into my being, and now doing this 11 Forgotten Laws Review so that anyone who wants this powerful manifesting information can benefit from it.

I’d like to spend a lot of time considering each, but want to give a snippet of each so that you can see how they work and which ones resonate with you. More

What Tears of Joy mean

24 Feb 2015 Leave a comment

by holisticjen in Abraham-Hicks, law of attraction, LOA Tags: , , , ,

So many times in my life I was thrilled to experience the “tears of joy” that we all get. Something joyful happens and we tear up…but why do we do that?

What tears of joy really mean (usually, and I say this from my life experience) is that we are having a wonderful moment of joy, but we know it’s bittersweet, fleeting, and temporary (like for a child’s graduation and lots of things with children)…and we wish to experience it longer, and therefore, we experience a mixed emotion of what is really joy AND anguish about the timing.  I find that this happens to me a LOT!  I feel sincerely moved by the every day living of being a mother and watching my children grow up, watching relationships change over “time”, and the uniqueness of each person I am honored to behold.

I thought this was just my humble opinion, but then I actually found an Abraham-Hicks video about tears of joy…and although she doesn’t say exactly what I just did, she clarifies some cool stuff.

She says that if we are crying for any reason, we are not in the vortex, and the reason we cry when something feels really good is because we aren’t used to feeling good for an extended period of time.  With practicing gradually changing our vibrations, we can change to experience and notice more good in our every day lives, and the moments that would give us tears will give us more pure joy instead, and we’ll get used to living from that purer state.  I suppose I should be asking to manifest overflowing good feelings, so that I can share them with others, rather than observe life.

I like how she talks about relief and clarity!

Much love from Jen C.

Manifest Emotions Not Manifestations for Stuff Money Cars Homes Relationships

20 Feb 2015 Leave a comment

by holisticjen in Abraham-Hicks, LOA Coach, LOA Tips, Manifesting Tips Tags: , , ,

Key Law of Attraction Point:  You want to feel good, so Manifest Emotions, not Manifestations, for stuff like money, cars, homes, relationships.  The joy is in the journey is what all the sages say.

Abraham teaches that we all “think” we would feel better if we had the things we want, but we have to feel good now, in order for the thing we want to manifest.  Yes, it seems most of us have gone about it backwards!

For the easiest manifesting, we have to feel the feeling of having it (the car, the love, the new job, etc.) already done. What does life look like when you already have the one thing you really want? (I do creative visualization and envision myself being happy in all the points of my day, enjoying fun with my family and friends, creating something within the community, good food and fun events together, and working at my leisure with perfect clients, so everything I do is easy, fun, and filled with goodness, abundance, and wellness.  I have all the qualities I want to possess.)

When we let go of “needing” it to be done asap, there is such a relief!  We can relax and enjoy the journey and the visualizations.  When we focus on feeling good, and just intending to feel love or peace, that love and peace begins to show up.  Acknowledge that in your own experience and watch more and more and better and better show up!  You will see a difference after a day or two, but it’s best to keep this up and play with it for 30 days or more.  Once you do that, you’ll keep changing it up.  🙂

I was just enjoying some positive aspects of one of my children and how she is more empowered, and I’m seeing evidence of that in my experience growing and building and strengthening.  I know it’s partly because of the work that I’m doing in my own mind (my emotional journey).  I take no credit for her experience, because it’s hers…BUT I know that I only notice the things I want to notice now, and empowerment is one of those emotions.

What emotions would you like to embody?  What change would you like to see in the world?

I want to see the evidence of love and peace, of kindness and compassion, of calm confidence, of support and abundance. When those things are my focus, I do see them.  When I revert back to watching the news, I start to see scarcity and hatred instead.  So, I’m smart enough to return my focus to what I am wanting, and it’s positive emotions, positive expectation, and positive beliefs.

Create some for yourself, manifest emotions instead of stuff, and come back and let us know how it’s going for you!  Much love from Jen C.

My LOA Article was Published on TheMasterShift

18 Feb 2015 3 Comments

by holisticjen in Abraham-Hicks, law of attraction, LOA, Manifesting, Positive Affirmations Tags: , , , , , ,

Hi, everybody.  Every day is different and usually very fun here at the Jersey Shore while I am enjoying life and manifesting the stuff I want, but recently, my LOA article was published on TheMasterShift.com, a site that I love!  I am so happy and thankful for moments like this that let me know that I am on the right path in my life.

Kudos for me, and kudos for you if you read it and get something out of it. 🙂  Be sure to come back here and leave a comment when you do.

Much love, Jen C.

Relating to someone who is lacking abundance homelessness sickness

16 Feb 2015 Leave a comment

by holisticjen in Abraham-Hicks, Homeless, LOA Tags: , , , , , , , ,

I have an interest in relating to someone who is lacking abundance, because I always meet people who are sick or poor or miserable in this wonderful world.  I sometimes wish to get involved in a group action like a fundraiser, volunteering, or just being part of the activism or advocacy needed to help people get ahead.

I love this topic because, although there is a lot of controversy about “how” to get people to learn about abundance, there is always a way to reach people.  I am at ease because I know that all beings will eventually “get it” so I am not at all concerned about when.

What I am concerned about is…Is anybody out there teaching this Law of Attraction for the Homeless or the Sick?  I sure would love to!  I have 15 classes donated and I would be happy to offer a life coaching class, or a series of classes, to any advocates or homeless in our local area to teach this subject of learning abundance and prosperity with the right mindset. (If you get in touch in the comments, I’ll connect with you about it).

Have you ever felt like just giving money never really fixed the problems you wanted to fix when you donated the money? Find out WHY!

Here’s an Abraham-Hicks video on why it doesn’t really help to give money (helps only temporarily), rather than help the person get aligned with their true self using clarity and prosperity and abundance and the higher emotions.  I also love this video because it shows the advocates for homeless people HOW to think about the situation.  The key is to NOT think like a homeless person and relate to them, but rather to see the person as God would see them, as whole, as evolving, as abundant already.

Sympathy or empathy have been the buzzwords for decades, but rarely do you hear anybody talking about something beyond empathy…WOW!  There are emotions that are better than empathy…better than meeting the person where they are at (which lowers you).  Yes, it makes sense to raise them up to your higher vibration when you view them as abundant! That makes way more sense, yes?

I would love to hear your comments if you changed your thinking and then “found” more abundance as well, do tell!  Much love and prosperity for all!

Attracting More Money using LOA Finding the Feeling Place

10 Feb 2015 Leave a comment

by holisticjen in Abraham processes, Abraham-Hicks, Creative Visualization, LOA, Manifesting Money Tags: , , , , ,

Money is a great topic within the Law of Attraction, and seems to be one of the catalysts to get people to try using LOA. Money is only an exchange, so it’s neutral, just like the beautiful beads or shells that were once used as money!  Here’s today’s Manifesting Tip about Money, so you can attract more money using LOA.

Finding the feeling place of money is the question.  You can’t make money, attract clients, win in the market, get a raise, win the lottery, or get freebies and discounts if you are always doubting whether money is flowing to you, or if you are focusing on your Lack of these things!

You have to feel like money, like money is easily flowing all the time, regardless of your job or life situation!  Don’t pray for more money, instead you must feel like you already have it.  Along with general happiness and having a lot of appreciation, this is the way to feel your way to the money you want.  Then, visualize all the fun you will have with the money:  buying new things like clothes, cars, better house, luxuries you want, saving, and donating.  Realize your spreading your abundance is actually helping all the people you paid along the way.  And when you want them to be as happy as you, you can really soar with this.  Visualize all of this in the NOW, because the Universe knows no difference between reality and imagination.  Eventually, your imagined dreams will become your reality.

Here’s an Abraham-Hicks video to show you how to rampage happily into a better feeling place about money.  I hope you love it as much as I do.

Much love and money!

Finding the Feeling Place of Satisfaction and Relief

01 Feb 2015 Leave a comment

by holisticjen in Abraham-Hicks, law of attraction, LOA, Manifesting Tags: , , , , , , , ,

I’ve heard Esther Hicks say that the feeling of satisfaction is a lot like relief.  Feeling satisfied is so extremely important, it means we really like ourselves, and are happy in our current moment.  It means right now is good, and we aren’t looking ahead to the next moment or worrying about the past.  Satisfaction feels good.

What is the feeling place of satisfaction and relief for you?  Is it:

  • Doing well on a task and celebrating it?
  • Getting something done joyfully–like all your cleaning–and being satisfied with your work and your self?
  • Realizing that you handled a difficult situation well–with ease or patience or kindness?
  • Knowing that so many things are lining up for you–and you created them?
  • Believing in yourself and your own abilities?
  • Feeling like you are so good–just because you are, or because of your performance?
  • Just feeling good where you are at, right now?

If these are the kinds of things that make you feel satisfied, then you are well on your way to being more happy with yourself.  You must have a strong current of self talk that uplifts you, and having satisfaction is an easy way to keep in a higher vibration.  Enjoy who you are, reach for feelings of satisfaction and relief, and watch what happens!  Try to find the feeling place of satisfaction more often, ask for it, and you will be given it.

Much love!  See my monthly calendar here!

The Emotional Journey

21 Jan 2015 Leave a comment

by holisticjen in Abraham-Hicks Tags: , , , , , , , , ,

The teachings of Abraham speak of “The Emotional Journey” that a person must take before he/she actually receives the object of desire.  The emotional journey is when you are getting ready for and aligning with this desire.  Some people say, “I’m going to get a new job,” and then they do the steps that lead them to it with ease, and they actually get the job.  Others say, “I’m going to get a new job,” and then fill their minds up with self doubt, and spending a large portion of their time talking about how hundreds of people are applying for it, and only one person will actually get this job.  This person is unlikely to make progress.

What’s the difference?  It’s in the emotional journey from Point A to Point B.  The first person is completely aligned about getting the job, so there is little resistance to having it.  The second is full of reasons why he won’t get the job, and so he won’t. If a person truly believes that he deserves something good, expects it to happen, and also really desires it, then it will come.

Do this exercise for yourself and you will see where you are about having belief, expectation, and desire.  Think about something you want that you really believe you will manifest, maybe even easily.  And think about another thing you want that you believe would be more difficult.  Track the outcomes of each.  I know if you follow your feelings, it will feel good to manifest the easy one, and it will feel slower and it will be more frustrating as you want to manifest the harder one.  It’s about focus, and the belief, expectation, and desire though.  Really explore what your beliefs are so you can drop the limiting beliefs on each topic that aren’t serving you.

Then focus solely on the good feelings you want from the desire–that is what will drive you to reach the goals you want to achieve.  If your desire is to get a new car, feel that feeling of driving it in the now, and spend a few minutes, even just once a day feeling that great feeling, as if it’s already manifested for you.  This is what I mean by focus.  Do not entertain all of the naysayers that say you can’t have a new car.  Do not worry about how you will get the car, or how you will pay for it. Keep the focus on the feeling of having it and how great it feels to be driving it, parking it, washing it, how easy your life is with this car. Once you start practicing this way of thinking (the vibration of a new car) you are on your way to it.

If your desire is just making a little more money, like $100 or $200 more a month, that is easy to ask for.  Just think about how good it will be to spend that money in the way you desire, such as allowing the children to do more activities, or putting a few more dollars into savings.  Feel how powerful you feel, as you have the ability to use money to your advantage each month.  The money is just passing from person to person, spreading abundance to others after you.  You are part of this global economy that is always changing and creating more, so there is enough for everyone.  It’s easy to feel good for most of the day, receive the good you deserve, and then pass it along to the next person.  You can happily receive all the good things you want.

Remember, don’t be wishy washy and go back and forth about your desire.  If you really want something, don’t tell yourself you can’t have it.

Much love, Jen C.

Abraham Process of Clearing Clutter for Mental Clarity

20 Jan 2015 Leave a comment

by holisticjen in Abraham-Hicks, Clarity, clearing Clutter, LOA Tags: , , , , ,

I love having that 15 minutes once in a while when I can clear away some clutter for my own mental clarity.  This process is in the book, Ask and It Is Given, by Esther and Jerry Hicks, and is one of the many pieces of the Teachings of Abraham. I like doing this at least once a week, to just clean up one area of the house.  I guess it’s good Feng Shui, but it’s way more than that.

The idea of clearing clutter is so important because if there is stuff that is unfinished, like piles of papers that need filing or just throwing out, or items that need mending, or stuff that is collecting dust:  unused when someone else could make use of them, or you are afraid to get rid of them…

You have heard how if you haven’t used an item in two years to get rid of it.  There is the garbage, but what about spreading your fortune to others?  Freecycle to someone who is looking for those items, or give them to someone who may need them.  I love giving my used items away, and always feel better when I know someone else will benefit from my abundance.  There are lots of items I could sell, and once in a while I do, but most of them, I just donate.

You’ll feel better every time.

When you clear away the clutter, your mind is so much lighter, and more free and easy.  You know your space has been cleared, and so your mind responds to this as well.  Your mind makes way for the good to come, but you must establish a space and a sign that you are ready for it.

What are you willing to give up (sacrifice?) in order to achieve something you really do want?

Are you willing to give up something that will get you clear and on a path to success?  What about clearing a space within yourself of negative thoughts, so that you can have a space for positive ones?

What about manifesting items you want, like a new car or an addition for your home?

For me, I’ve recently given up drinking coffee, even though it was decaf.  I wanted the time freedom from being tied to making it and drinking it.  Although I do love coffee, I realized that it was holding me back from other things I wanted more, which was having fun time with my kids in the morning.  My coffee pot went upstairs in my attic, and will only resurface when we have company.  I get a clear counter, and a clear mind in the morning and throughout the day.  I like this feeling much more.  I want the clarity to stay in the moment and be a fun person.

When you tell the Universe, “Yes, I’m ready for my Highest Good”  that also includes the physical stuff you want.  And that stuff will come using a variety of ways to expand your mind and consciousness.  Have you found that clearing clutter was helpful to you, and did you feel an energetic shift after you cleaned up?  Tell us about it!

Happy manifesting and much love!  Jen C.

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